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“Stand for ALL Families” Rally Wrap-Up

Jennifer Keane

  • Jennifer Keane

Jennifer Keane isn’t gay. She’s a straight married mom with a toddler and another kid on the way. When she and her husband moved to Memphis from Ohio, the state recognized their marriage. Because she’s married, she can make end-of-life decisions for her husband if necessary. She and her husband benefit from tax deductions due to their marriage, and she’s covered on her husband’s insurance policy.

“I have all this because I’m straight. What kind of damn sense does that make?” asked a tearful Keane, as she addressed the crowd of about 100 people gathered in the sanctuary at Neshoba Unitarian Universalist Church in Cordova Monday night.

Keane was one of several speakers at the “Stand for ALL Families” rally held at Neshoba, a counter-rally protesting the “Stand for Families” rally at Bellevue Baptist Church. The Bellevue rally featured Family Research Council president Tony Perkins, a well-known foe of marriage equality.

Also at the Neshoba rally were Edie and Tamar Love, a married lesbian couple with two children. Though their marriage isn’t recognized in Tennessee, the Loves live their daily lives as a married couple. When their kids ask questions about why their parents aren’t allowed to have their marriage recognized, Tamar says she isn’t sure how to answer.

Edie and Tamar Love

  • Edie and Tamar Love

“We have a hard time answering that question because we don’t understand the problem either,” says Tamar.

Jonathan Cole of the Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) spoke about the gay community’s newest threat in Shelby County — the Family Action Council of Tennessee (FACT). FACT is a non-profit, conservative Christian organization aimed at promoting “traditional families” (read: heterosexual families). The group, which previously only had a presence in middle Tennessee, is setting up an office in Cordova. Cole believes FACT is coming to Shelby County as a result of the gay community’s success in passing a non-discrimination ordinance last summer protecting Shelby County employees on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. The city council will consider a similar measure protecting city employees later this spring.

After Cole spoke, Will Batts, director of the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center, called the attendees to action. He asked everyone in the room to urge other LGBT people and straight allies to speak out in support of equality.

Said Batts: “We need to encourage people to come out and stand on the picket line. We will win this. We just can’t give up.”

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Mix ‘N’ Match

I think I’ve made my feelings known on bib necklaces (pro on the concept, not on the name), and here is a cute one on Penelope.

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“I recently wore it to the Phoenix Club party all dressed up, but the beauty of it is that it can easily be transitioned to the day,” she says. “Actually, the beauty of it is that it was missing a stone so it was 75 percent off at Dillard’s.”

In this picture, she’s also wearing a tie-dyed wrap from Gianni Bini, a designer that she just discovered and loves, Bebe jeans, and her Naughty Monkey boots.

And she paired it all with a turtleneck from Target. If I haven’t mentioned it before, I think Penelope has shown us how easy it can be to mix and match basics from Target with vintage pieces or more name brand things.

What else have we learned? Animal print can tie things together, it’s fun to mix up colors and patterns, and we might need to ask Penelope’s mom to do this feature.

Again, I want to thank Penelope McDowell for being this week’s Fashion Plate and Gwyn Fisher and Shalishah Franklin for taking this week’s photos.

(If you want to nominate a Fashion Plate, shoot me an email.)

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“Memphis” Heading to The Orpheum

The touring production of Broadway hit, Memphis, will kick off in, well, Memphis.

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Sports Tiger Blue

“Roundball Remedy”

Several people have asked my opinion on last week’s NCAA rejection of the U of M appeal for reduced sanctions in the Derrick Rose/SAT affair. It’s ugly, it’s painful . . . but it should be no surprise, particularly to those (like most of Tiger Nation) who follow college basketball closely. I wrote an essay last November for Memphis magazine in which I propose a solution. Until college presidents are honest with themselves about the role big-time hoops play on campus, why should any of us expect honesty from the players and coaches who benefit most from the current system?

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La Cage aux Folles

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Intermission Impossible Theater

MEMPHIS coming to Memphis

It was savaged by the critics but Memphis, the musical by Joe DiPietro and Bon Jovi’s David Bryan found its audience and now there’s a national tour in the works. First stop: Memphis’ Orpheum.

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Tennessee’s “Jock Tax”

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So Tennessee taxes visiting professional athletes. Who knew?

The Detroit News reported last week that Brian Rafalski, a member of the Detroit Red Wings hockey team, complained about the jock tax while playing against the Nashville Predators.

The little-publicized tax passed the legislature in 2009. A total of 18 states tax the income of visiting pro athletes. Tennessee does not have a general state income tax.

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Willie Herenton on the Specter of Voter Crossover

Ex-mayor Herenton laughs it up Saturday with Chism and Mike Gray

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  • Ex-mayor Herenton laughs it up Saturday with Chism and Mike Gray

Willie Herenton has the mike and is using it to broadcast his grievances loud and large over the speaker system at his friend Sidney Chism’s Saturday kickoff event in the Plaza Shopping Center mall on south Elvis Presley Boulevard.

“…We got nothing we need to apologize for,” he is concluding. “We didn’t put people in chains and bring them over here against their will.” This and similar remarks make up the peroration of his introduction of county commissioner Chism, who is running for reelection, and when he turns the microphone over, Chism continues in that vein:

“No, we got nothing to apologize for.” But it turns out there is something that requires an apology, or at least an act of atonement.” We got to clean up what you messed up. Yeah, you got to clean up what you sho’ messed up!”

Both men are talking about the same thing — the need, as they see it, hoping that the rest of the city’s African-American population agrees, for a reversion to black occupancy of the 9th District congressional office won by then state Senator Steve Cohen, at least partly with Herenton’s help, in 2006. Herenton, who contends he is defending the principle of equal representation, is now determined to unseat Cohen, whom he has referred to publicly as an “asshole.”

It is Chism’s event, and the well-known political broker has enough clout to attract a passel of other candidates and office-holders to his event: interim county mayor Joe Ford, for example, whose mayoral campaign occupies the space next door to Chism’s and who shortly delivers a testimonial to his erstwhile fellow commissioner.

But Herenton is the reigning celebrity here and has already altered the character of the event merely by his presence. And, though his public stemwinder is over with, he hasn’t got everything off his chest.

He heads over my way, and, after a few comments on how his run for Congress is going — “I’m campaigning hard. I’ve been working every goddamned day!” — he begins to dilate on “media bias” against him, citing as the latest instance of it the final paragraph of an “In Brief” item by The Commercial Appeal’s Bartholomew Sullivan in that morning’s paper.

The offending passage comes at the end of some matter-of-fact graphs about Herenton’s having filing his petition for office on the preceding day and a short statement from the former Memphis mayor on his desire to serve in Congress as “a continuation of public service.”

Then Sullivan notes that, on the same day as Herenton’s filing, District Attorney General Bill Gibbons had given up the ghost on his lagging gubernatorial campaign, thereby, Sullivan notes, “potentially freeing some GOP voters to cross party lines and vote in the Democratic primary.”

Well, I comment, the observation seems true enough. Cohen has always enjoyed some Republican crossover (paradoxically, given his simultaneous reputation as the leading liberal light in these parts). And Gibbons’ withdrawal as a favorite-son candidate for governor in the Republican primary would surely facilitate the fact.

“But who’s crossing over?” Herenton demands. I agree that most of the crossover voters, if such there be, will, in fact, be white. At that, the former mayor — who in his middle years as mayor, especially in his 1999 re-election campaign against Joe Ford, could claim a generous share of white and Republican votes himself — looks vindicated.

“If I say it, I’m playing the race card. To me that’s the race card!” he proclaims.

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Tennessee Races to the Top

In the first round of the federal $4 billion Race to the Top education-reform competition, only Tennessee and Delaware have been awarded funding.

Tennessee asked for $502 million, but the exact amount of funding it will receive should be released at the official press conference at 1 p.m. today. [UPDATE: Tennessee was the big winner, with a $500 million award. Delaware will receive $100 million.]

Fifteen states were named as finalists last month, out of 41 initial applications. Both Delaware, which got the highest ranking, and Tennessee stressed data-driven reform in their applications.

Under Tennessee’s plan, the state will intervene directly in persistently low-achieving schools and will require that at least half of a teacher’s performance evaluation be based on student achievement data.

According to the Washington Post:

[Education secetary Arne] Duncan’s decision to name only two initial winners gives the Obama administration continued leverage to upend the status quo in public education. It also squelches any suggestion that Duncan would seek to spread the money around as much and as fast as possible to help Obama win favor in key political states.

At least one blog, Education Week’s Politics K-12, is suggesting that Tennessee and Delaware may have won b/c they have powerful Republican lawmakers the Obama administration is trying to court to renew the Elementary and Secondary Education Act.

Second-round applications are due June 1st.

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Memphis’ Tax-base Woes

Mary Cashiola has visuals that demonstrate what the city is up against when it comes to its eroding tax base.