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WE SAW YOU: Works of Heart

Guests were all heart at Works of Heart, the Memphis Child Advocacy Center fundraiser presented by Stern Cardiovascular. The art auction and party was held Saturday, February 8th, at the Memphis Botanic Garden.

“Works of Heart was a record-breaking success,” says Beryl Wight, the center’s communications and grants manager. “We had 122 artists — a record — and raised over $139,000 [also a record].”

This was the third year at the Memphis Botanic Garden, Wight says. Between 300 and 350 people attended the event.

Now in its 33rd year, Works of Heart’s first beneficiary was the Mental Health Association. After it closed, the Memphis Child Advocacy Center became the beneficiary.

Longtime Works of Heart supporter Murray Riss was at this year’s event with his wife Karen and daughter Shanna. “Murray was part of the planning committee that brought the event to us,” Wight says, adding, “He certainly is a very important contributor, serving as chair and co-chair for many years. And, of course, he still is a contributing artist.” 

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Beloved Barksdale’s Returns

Rise and shine. Breakfast is almost ready.

Barksdale’s, the iconic eatery at 237 Cooper Street, is about to reopen after a fire in June 2024.

And I can’t wait.

“We’re hoping to open by the end of next month,” Bryant Bain says. “By the end of March.”

Bain, his wife Heather, and Ryan Glosson are the new owners of Barksdale’s. They’re also the owners of Bain Barbecue down the street at 993 Cooper Street in Cooper-Young.

Why did they want to buy Barksdale’s? “We’ve all eaten there,” Bryant says. “And it’s been in the community for so many years.”

When they heard Barksdale’s was going to close, they knew that couldn’t happen. It was, “Hey, if we can do something about it, we’re going to.”

They’re going to retain as much of the look and atmosphere of the old Barksdale’s as possible. “We’re trying to keep it feeling like it used to be.”

Barksdale’s in the early days (Photo: Courtsey Barksdale’s)

But, Heather adds, “They had a terrible fire. Because of grandfather laws and stuff, we had to redo the vast majority of it.”

They had to get “all new electric,” Bryant says. As well as “rebuild the bathrooms. The ceilings are new. All new light fixtures. Everything is new except the walls.”

They did save the bar and tables and chairs. “That kind of thing.”

Plates and cups were also saved, Heather says.

As for the employees, Bryant says, “They’re all invited to come back. Some of them obviously had to get other jobs.”

But, he says, “I know Miss Debbie [Miller] and Bert [McElroy] are coming back, for sure. Some kitchen staff are coming back.”

Classic Bob’s Barksdale’s breakfast (Photo: Courtsey Barksdale’s)

Asked what they ate when they used to visit Barksdale’s, Heather says, “I would just get eggs and bacon.”

Bryant got the plate lunch. “More of the veggies, to be honest.”

Customers can look for their favorites on the menu. “It’s going to be the same type of menu, but I’ve overhauled it to make it fresher,” Bryant says. “Everything is going to be homemade. A lot of things they were making out of bags. And I just don’t do that.”

Asked if they’re going to sell barbecue at Barksdale’s, Bryant says, “We will not be.”

In April 2024, I did a story about Barksdale’s, then known as Bob’s Barksdale Restaurant, for Memphis Magazine. This was my description of the place after I ate there that morning: “Every table is taken on my visit. Photos of smiling customers on memorabilia-covered walls look down on the smiling faces of customers talking and eating. Servers with coffee pots wind around tables pouring refills and taking orders.”

The original Barksdale Restaurant was at 227 South Barksdale Street, owner Beth Henry told me. The owner’s last name was Stamson, she said. He was from Greece.

The restaurant moved to where it is now around 1968. Stamson gave the restaurant to his son Jerry Stamson, who sold it to Bob Henry in 2000, Beth said. Bob changed the name to Bob’s Barksdale Restaurant.

Beth married Bob, who she got to know after she began visiting the restaurant from her job at an insurance company across the street. She took over the restaurant after Bob died. 

“We were just friends for years,” Beth told me in my interview. “I’d come over and have coffee. Then I got to know people. And I got to know some of the servers. And then later on in life it worked out to where we ended up getting together and got married. I just knew that he was a good man.”

Not much was done to the interior after she took over, Beth told me. When she pondered the idea of sprucing the place up a bit after she bought it, she said, “You could hear the Midtown gasps: ‘No, no, no. We like it like that.’”

She said customers told her they began going to the Barksdale with their dad and now they bring their granddaughter.

Beth did say she had interior painting done when they were closed for 82 days during the pandemic. And then she had to repair the foyer after a car crashed into the front of the restaurant on June 26, 2022.

She said half the customers are college students. “We have some customers who have been coming here 30, 40 years. When we don’t see them, we start to worry.”

And she told me over the years, weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, and the filming of at least one short movie took place at the Barksdale.

Now the beloved Barksdale’s is about to return.

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Food News Bites: Chef Judd Grisanti is Back

Judd Grisanti’s been cooking up something lately. Now he’s ready to spill the beans.

The popular chef from the Grisanti family restaurant fame is  ready for people to get a taste (literally) of his latest venture. He will launch “Gourmet-To-Go,” which is part of his new Green Apple’s Foods Co., Sunday, February 16th.

Grisanti is thinking healthy. Each week, he will prepare meals and deliver them to people’s homes. These aren’t frozen chicken-potatoes-and-beans combos. Here’s a sample of his cuisine: “Asian Inspired Wild Salmon Protein Smart Fluffy Coconut Sushi Lime Rice Bowl.”

“It’s a macro nutrient and micro nutrient meal plan,” Grisanti says. “Macro means carbohydrates, proteins, and fats. Micro means the natural vitamins in our foods that our bodies need. for an overall balanced diet.”

Grisanti isn’t talking about just cutting out fats. “We need good fats, not bad fats. And the good fats come from nuts. They come from avocados. They come from olive oil, sesame seeds, cashews, tuna fish, salmon, edamame, or walnuts. We’re taking pills for our vitamins when our vitamins are already in our food, and easier for our bodies to digest than a pill.”

Foodies first met Grisanti when he was a server in the old Beale Street location of Ronnie Grisanti & Sons Italian Restaurant, which was owned by his dad, the late Ronnie Grisanti. Judd went on to work at his dad’s restaurant when it moved to 2855 Poplar Avenue. He also worked as chef/owner at Spindini and was owner of Ronnie Grisanti’s Italian Restaurant in Regalia.

Chefs Alex and Judd Grisanti and their dad, the late Ronnie Grisanti, in the early 1990s (Credit: Courtesy of Judd Grisanti)

Judd operates his new business out of a customized commercial kitchen food truck in Laws Hill, Mississippi, which is not far from his farm. “It’s basically a commercial kitchen on wheels,” he says.

As a chef, Grisanti says,“Mentally, we’re always evolving. We’re always learning.  We’re always exploring, especially in the culinary world. People call it ‘R and D’ — ‘research and development.’”

 Judd came up with the idea for his new venture while recovering from a surgery seven months ago. “During the time that I’ve taken off, I’ve been here at the farm thinking about the paths that I’ve gone down. And wondering, ‘Where is Judd Grisanti going next?’ Which direction am I going to go?”

When he was working in a commercial kitchen in a restaurant, he could make anything he wanted on a whim. “I’ve always had the ingredients at my fingertips.”

But now, he says, “Being out of the restaurant business for seven months and not being in a commercial kitchen, I’m cooking for one now. And going to the grocery store and getting what I need.”

“I would come in tired and worn out physically, and I had to cook something for dinner. It had to be something that had nutritional values to it, so, I could replace the calories I burned and give myself energy for the next day. I learned it’s not just me that has to worry about what they’re having for dinner that night, planning their meals, prepping their meals, and going to find the time to do the shopping and the cooking.”

That’s when he came up with Gourmet to Go. “Fully-prepared, chef-created, well-rounded, nutritional meals. Flare, culture, and the art of cuisine delivered to your doorstep — for a balanced lifestyle.” 

“A lot of people don’t have the full information of where all carbs come from. Your body has to have carbs.”

But there are good carbs and bad carbs, he says. “You want to eat carbs like quinoa, lentils, whole grains, sweet potatoes, different types of beans, and whole grain pastas. All those are okay, but you want to keep it high fibers.”

“People ask, ‘Oh why did you go to culinary school?’ I did go to culinary school to learn how to cook a steak or whatever. But,” he says “As chefs, we get lost sometimes in what we’re creating. We can definitely create incredible food that has micro nutrient and macro nutrient values to them rather than just putting out stuff with a lot of fat, heavy cream, butter, and all the stuff we love. Instead of using those ingredients that we would typically go to, there are alternatives. And we just have to put more energy and thought into what we’re doing. And it’s more simplified than what we think.”

Describing his Asian-inspired wild salmon bowl, he says, “It’s baked wild salmon with a home-made hoisin black garlic sauce. And that’s over shredded purple cabbage, shredded carrots, edamame, English cucumbers, shiitake mushrooms topped with fried shallots, furikake, and sriracha aioli.”

Another dish is “The Mediterranean Gyro Greek Chicken Smart Protein Bowl.” This includes quinoa, pearl pasta, and couscous. “I mix those three grains together. And then you have some green with it. More likely kale, if that’s what they wish. And on top you’ll have pickled red onions, English cucumbers, grape tomatoes, feta cheese, and a homemade tzatziki sauce topped with roasted garbanzo beans.”

Mediterranean Gyro Greek Chicken Smart Protein Bowl (Credit: Judd Grisanti)

Each meal comes in three parts. “Your main dish comes in a bowl with sauce or marinade or dressing on the side, along with greens or tomatoes. Minimal assembly. It can be ready in minutes. Microwave six minutes, or in the oven at 375 degrees and it’s ready in 20 minutes. And then you can add your sauce and your fresh herbs and whatever is on the side.”

Eventually, he says, “You’ll be able to pick out your protein, your mix of grains. And then you’ll be able to pick out the veggies you want to go on there. You might want it with lamb or shrimp or whatever. And then we’ll be able to customize it for you.”

His catchline is “Heat, Eat, & Enjoy!!!”

Grisanti says he will change the menu (which offers six dishes) weekly. “I have hundreds of recipes already written.” He also plans to add “some Grisanti menu items,” which are “protein forward.” And he’ll include Grisanti’s roasted chicken lasagna “with the fresh spinach and prosciutto” as well as the shrimp fried diablo.

For now, Grisanti is using his email address, grisanti909@gmail.com, Facebook address, “Judd D. Grisanti,” and Instagram address, “grisanti.restaurant” for orders. “We take orders for the week up until Tuesday night at 10:00. Wednesday, we set out for delivery and we bring it straight to you. There’s no hidden fee. No members fee. Nothing like that. We are just simply a chef providing a service to your door.”

In addition to Gourmet to Go, Judd’s Green Apple’s Co., which he describes as a “full menu line,” will include desserts and various types of snacks and starters, including hummus, and protein-forward desserts “We’re working on things every week. Testing and getting things done.” 

Judd’s slogan is “Fork it Up.” “Instead of saying ‘Cheers’ or whatever, it’s like, ‘Fork it Up with Gourmet to Go.’ You can eat good and eat as much as you want. And when it good food it’s actually  going to make you feel fuller.You’re getting everything you need. We’re doing these prepared meals to go straight to the consumer. It comes from our kitchen straight to your kitchen. You just eat and enjoy.”

Chef Judd Grisanti (Credit: Carter Gober)
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WE SAW YOU: Healthier Memphis Gala

A total of $231,000 was raised at this year’s Healthier Memphis Gala presented by Lifedoc Health.

And $48,000 of that was raised at the live auction.

The event, held January 31st at the old Summit Club space at the top of Clark Tower, provided a tasty way for guests to support Lifedoc Health’s work. Fifteen Memphis chefs provided the fare for guests, many of whom wore Gatsby-like attire — flapper dresses and tuxedos — from that other Twenties decade. “Our Roaring 20th: A Speakeasy Soirée” was the event theme.

According to its website, the mission of Lifedoc Health is “to build healthier communities by preventing diabetes through healthcare and research.”

As the invitation reads, “All proceeds will support Lifedoc’s investment in research and policy to transform healthcare for Memphis’s most underserved communities.” 

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James Beard-Nominated Drew Bryan’s Blue Honey Bistro Is Buzzing

Blue Honey Bistro is its name, but chef Drew Bryan, who owns the Germantown restaurant with his wife Courtney, is definitely not singing the blues these days. He was recently nominated for the prestigious James Beard Award as Best Chef: Southeast.

“We were not aware we were even in the running,” Bryan says. “We just got a text message: ‘Hey, congratulations for the nomination.’ We were like, ‘What?’”

Drew, who is from California, says cooking was not his passion growing up. He was even a picky eater as a child. He got a job as a dishwasher and moved up the line at the old Ciao Baby Cucina, but, he says, “I didn’t find it as a passion.”

Cooking was “more of a necessity than anything else. It was how I paid my bills.”

Things began to change in 2006. “It started to dawn on me, ‘I need to get serious about it. Or not.’”

He enrolled in the French Culinary Institute in New York, where he graduated on his 30th birthday. He began working in New York restaurants, an eye-opening experience. “It was completely different from what I’d seen in Memphis. … It was far more advanced — hydrocolloids and all these scientific things.” 

Drew eventually moved back to Memphis, where he still owned a house. He worked under chef José Gutierrez at River Oaks Restaurant. That’s where he met Courtney, who was a bartender there. But there came a point when Drew was ready to make a change. “I wanted to take over a kitchen and do things my way. … I had to find my own way and my own place.”

After three years at River Oaks, Drew went to work at Spring Creek Ranch, where Courtney eventually joined him. They opened Blue Honey Bistro in 2017. 

Courtney now runs the front of the house at Blue Honey Bistro. “[Drew] and I are very balanced with each other,” she says. “Where I’m weaker, he is stronger and where he is weaker, I am stronger. As far as our personalities, I would say we’re both bold, up-front people.”

“We are very much against-the-grain people,” Drew says, “so we wanted to open something that Germantown didn’t have.”

They wanted “an inviting environment that makes you feel okay to come in casual attire as well as your Sunday best,” Courtney says. “You’re going to feel comfortable either way.”

Blue Honey Bistro “has that Cheers atmosphere,” she says. “People come in and make friends with other regulars.”

The name “Blue Honey” refers to a rare phenomenon in North Carolina when bee honey turns from gold to blue. And it pertains to Drew and Courtney as well: “a rare couple enjoying working together and spending all their time together,” Courtney says. 

As for the food, Drew says, “We started solely French because of my background in French cookery and technique.”

But they also do curries and different Asian-style dishes, among other cuisines. “I’ve tried to adopt certain cooking styles that are comfortable with the employees.”

Drew changes his menu every two to three weeks. “We try to change it as much as possible because I get bored really easily. For a while, just after Covid, we changed it weekly.”

They do have some staple items that don’t change, their most popular being “Mushrooms and Toast.” It’s ciabatta bread with sautéed mushrooms, Gruyere cheese, bacon, caramelized onion, beurre blanc, and a poached egg on top.

Drew wants his cooks to also make things they like to make. If not, they “aren’t building out to their abilities and complete potential that they have.”

January is typically a slow month for restaurants, but, Drew says, “Being nominated for James Beard has really kind of shaken the tree a lot.” Yet he didn’t “set out to try and garner a lot of notoriety or anything like that,” he says. “What we wanted was to open a restaurant because we really enjoy what we do.”

The James Beard Award finalists will be announced April 2nd, Drew says. “If you are a finalist, you are invited to the awards. And that is mid-June.”

Drew is pleased Acre Restaurant owner Wally Joe and Acre’s executive chef Andrew Adams are also nominated in his category. “I would love to win, but if there’s anybody I would not be disappointed in losing to, it is Wally and Andrew.” 

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Hoping For A Rosy Future

A rose by any other name — still won’t impress Colby Midgett.

“I hate roses,” says Midgett. “They are just so normal, you know. It’s like the go-to for all flowers. But there are so many other beautiful flowers that people just overlook.”

As owner of Premier Flowers, Midgett says she still uses roses every day. Over the years, she’s used them in hundreds of floral arrangements, including one that took 500 roses. And she’ll be using more this week for Valentine’s gifts. Valentine’s Day is “a rose holiday.”

Premier Flowers (Credit: Colby Midgett)

Midgett recently moved her florist business to 2095 Madison Avenue after almost eight years downtown. As far as she knows, she may be the first full-scale florist in the history of Overton Square.

She just got tired of what was going on at her old shop at 10 North Second Street, No. 105. “The shop had been broken into three times over the course of five years,” she says. People vandalized cars parked near the shop.

Midgett also had problems when she’d “try to beautify the outside of the store” with plants. The pots were damaged or stolen and the plants got “pulled out of the pot.”

“It was always just something,” she says, adding, “I just got tired of investing money in that location. It started to have an effect on my pocketbook.”

Business also wilted after the pandemic and people began working from home instead of their downtown offices. “It just got weird downtown. Downtown just started to change.”

She decided to close when her lease was about to come to an end last October. She began selling her equipment. “Every piece of refrigeration equipment I owned. The walk-in alone was probably worth about $12,000, but, of course, I didn’t get that.”

A property investor from LPI Memphis, who was buying some coolers  and other restaurant equipment from her, told her about Overton Square. “He said they would love to have us over here as a pop-up.” 

She moved to the new location last November. A native Memphian, Midgett says,“What prompted me to open a florist shop, I would say, was love for flowers and plants and just nature. I love designing. I have a passion for it. I come from a crafty family. My mother and grandmother, they were gardeners. So, I’ve always loved gardening and designing.”

She began her floral business out of her home. “And then it quickly grew,” she says. “I opened my first brick and mortar at Poplar and Tillman.”

Midgett stayed at that location in Chickasaw Oaks for about a year until she moved downtown. “I just needed more space. That business rapidly grew. When I moved downtown, my business grew 47 percent.”

She wasn’t sure at first if moving downtown was the right decision. “I was hesitant initially, but I’ve always loved downtown. And the space was beautiful. An old building surrounded by windows. I was hesitant, but I stepped out on faith and did it anyway.”

But parking was terrible. Customers kept getting tickets. And, she says, “The shop got broken into the first year I was downtown. They kept coming in the same window on the alley side.”

Premier Flowers is now a six-month pop-up in Overton Square.  “We’re just trying the space out. Just to get a feel of the market over here.” But, Midgett says, “It’s like starting a business all over again, really. What I like most about it is they have their own security. And you always see them.”

She also likes the fact that Gould’s Salon Spa-Overton Square is on one side of her shop and Golden India restaurant is on the other side. “We have a backdoor — we didn’t have a backdoor downtown — that looks out into the courtyard.”

Midgett feels welcome at her new spot. “They’ve been wanting a florist over here from what I’ve been told.” And, she adds, “Business has picked up a little.”

Her regular downtown customers are loyal. “People  love our work and our designs. So, I feel like they’ll support us no matter where we are. But the walk-in traffic was a little bit more over there because people are always out walking.”

Asked what describes her style of floral arranging, Midgett says, “We may do a whimsical, airy design, and maybe pop in an orchid. I may throw in some dried palms or just something to give it a unique look. Not like the usual florist sends out.”

She uses “fresh flowers. We don’t do any silks.”

Hydrangeas — “a Southern favorite” — are popular, she says. She may use hydrangea flowers with some tropical greenery, eucalyptus leaves, and “maybe some curly willow or some pussy willow or some green dianthus. Something that gives it a different look. I don’t like to use a lot of low-end flowers like carnations or alstroemeria, or daisies or anything like that. But we do use those.”

As for who makes up the majority of her customers, she says, “We get more men.”

Midgett may hate the flower, but she hopes now in her new Overton Square location — with security and more peace of mind — everything will be coming up roses.

Premier Flowers (Credit: Colby Midgett)
Premier Flowers (Credit: Colby Midgett)
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Bar Limina Opens in the Edge District

Bar Limina is raising the bar on what a Memphis cocktail establishment should be.

Slated to open in March at 631 Madison Avenue in the Edge District, the space will be “a really great cocktail bar,” says owner Josh Conley, 34. “It’s a technique-driven cocktail bar. Just really well executed cocktails. Some plays on classics.”

In addition to “really high standards of service and really great drinks,” Bar Limina will “feature bartenders from all over the world right in this space with relative frequency.”

He says, “It’s really great for our guests. It offers them this rotating concept: asking bartenders to come in and present an entirely different concept.”

Bar Limina has a lot in common with Conley’s Etowah Hunt Club dinner series. Etowah features at least four pop-up dinners a year, hosted by Conley and Cole Jeanes, chef/owner of Kinfolk Memphis and the upcoming Hard Times Deli. The seasonal dinners feature top chefs from around the country.

“People will want to be here to see what the next attraction is. Same thing with the Etowah dinner series. Just a great extension of that.”

The visiting bartenders, which could be 40 or so people a year, will include some who have been nominated for awards, including the prestigious James Beard Award.

Bar Limina also will feature its own staff of local bartenders, who can learn new techniques, recipes, and ingredients from the out-of-town bartenders. “That’s a lot of knowledge you just don’t get elsewhere,” Conley says. “We want to move the needle as to what Memphis does as a drinking city.”

The same concept is being done in other cities. “The idea of a guest shift at a bar is not an original idea. But doing it at this scale and with this frequency isn’t seen anywhere else.”

As for food, Conley says, “We don’t have a kitchen staff. Just small plates, cheese, charcuterie. That sort of thing. And some other fun things.”

They won’t feature live music inside the bar, which seats about 40 people. “It’s a pretty small place.”

But they have access to a small courtyard. “I can see live music being out there.”

The Bar Limina space was formerly occupied by Inkwell. “We’re in the process of redoing the aesthetics of the space and making it feel like our own.”

It will be “really bright and airy” with a lot of plants. “We’ve got those incredible terrazzo floors that are original to the building.”

The rooms, including the bathroom, feature colorful, intricate tile patterns. “This space originally was a tile showroom, so all the tile through the entire place is wild.”

Colors include “light blues, creamy white, mustard yellow, olive,” he says. The front of the bar, which seats 12, has a black quartz top “with this ox blood enamel finish on the front.”

“I’ll be bringing in some more wood elements to warm it up a little,” Conley says. “We’ve got some early classic leather bar stools. We’ve got light white marble cafe tables.”

And “a great U-shaped leather booth sits back in the corner.”

Art work will include a 12-foot-wide piece of original art by Kyle Taylor behind the bar.

Their neighbors include Ugly Art Co., JEM restaurant, Rootstock Wine Merchants, and the upcoming Hard Times Deli. “There’s a lot of really good synergy in the neighborhood right now.”

Conley, who is from Northeast Arkansas, is a professional bartender, who has worked “in and out of bars. I’ve been around the industry.”

He “instantly gravitated” to the craft cocktail movement. “It was just something I got enamored with, and I made a lot of friends who worked in bars, or worked in coffee.”

“I really mostly learned on my own time,” he says. “It’s my hobby.”

Asked to name his favorite cocktail, Conley says, “I go through phases.”

If he only had one cocktail to drink for the rest of his life it would be a “cocktail à la Louisiane,” which he describes as a “Sazerac and Manhattan mash-up.”

But, Conley says, “I usually drink martinis at home. Gin. Always gin.” 

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WE SAW YOU: Mike McCarthy’s El-Bow Party

Memphis filmmaker/sculptor Mike McCarthy threw his annual El-Bow party, in homage to the shared birthdays of Elvis Presley and David Bowie, on January 25th at McCarthy’s Midtown home.

Each icon got his own cake made by Kasey Dees.

The party, McCarthy says, “was for people who I worked with and sort of a payback to people I’ve been collaborating with.”

This year, the party was part of a longer series of events dealing with the history of rock-and-roll in Memphis. The Marcialyns with Marcia Clifton, Tim Prudhomme, Rev. Neil Down, and Memphis Flyer reporter Chris McCoy performed.

McCarthy kicked everything off with his Glam Rock Picnic last June, where he unveiled his 10-foot papier-mâché work-in-progress sculpture of Bowie, who performed in Memphis. 

McCarthy will tentatively hold his “next Bowie sculpture awareness event”on February 25th. The four Bowie faces have been cast into bronze by the Lugar Foundry. The statue, which portrays Bowie in the “Tokyo Pop” jumpsuit by Kansai Yamamoto, has four heads, which represent Bowie’s predilection for taking on different identities, McCarthy says. 

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Mother-and-son Duo Launch Second Children’s Book

Once upon a time there was a little boy who asked his mother if he could have a pet.

The little boy’s name is Payton Burk. His mother’s name is Kathleen Weatherford. His question led to the two collaborating on their first children’s book, If You Take A Cicada Home as a Pet, in 2022.

They recently completed their second  book, If You Take A Groundhog Home as a Pet. The new book will launch at 3:30 p.m. today, January 30th, which is Burk’s 10th birthday, at a book signing at Novel at 387 Perkins Extended in Laurelwood Shopping Center.

If You Take a Groundhog Home as a Pet

Weatherford, a metalsmith/jewelry artist whose custom-made pieces sell across the country at high-end stores, says Burk was 7 years old when he got a homework assignment to write what it’s like to have a pet. He said, “Oh, mom. I don’t even have a pet,” Weatherford says.

“He’d been begging to have a pet,” but the family is “on the go a lot,” so Weatherford told him, “You don’t need a pet.”

On their way to school, she and her son saw a cicada which appeared to be sleeping. “It looks like a little alien to him. And it flies off. I said, ‘Oh, man. That could have been your pet.’ He got so upset. He said, ‘Now I really don’t have a pet.’”

But, she adds, “That’s when we started the journey of writing.”

But starting that day, Weatherford and Burk began composing a book to and from school each day about what it would be like to have a cicada for a pet. “We would text little pieces of the story in the voice texts on my phone.”

They’d compile everything and organize their thoughts after he got home from school. Burk was learning sentence structure without even knowing it.

Weatherford also realized putting a book together was helping Burk’s recently-diagnosed ADHD.

When the book was completed, Weatherford hired Victoria Trum from Moldavia in Eastern Europe to illustrate the book. 

Weatherford self-published the book, which she originally gave as family Christmas presents. She put the leftover books at Landmark Booksellers in Franklin, Tennessee. “They sold out every time.”

Last winter, Burk asked his mother if they could write another book. “He was getting really tired of winter because he couldn’t play outside.”

Weatherford told him, “We’d better hope the groundhog doesn’t see his shadow. Burk came up with the idea of someone capturing the groundhog as a pet so it won’t be able to see its shadow. The result would be an early spring. If You Take a Groundhog Home as a Pet was born.

Creating a book together was much more than just a pastime, Weatherford says. “The whole purpose was to help him with the creative part of his brain where he was learning, but not knowing he was learning.”

Working on the book helped him in school. “His grades improved substantially,” Weatherford says. “He’s excelling.”

And, she says, “He’s not so frustrated. He doesn’t get so upset. He thinks, ‘I need to step back and organize these thoughts in my head.’”

More books are on the horizon, Weatherford says. “We’re looking at 10 books we have right now on our vision board.”

They dedicate a certain amount of time each day to writing. They’ll sit down, put some ideas on paper, and then come back to them later. After they finish the text, the two talk about what type of illustrations will go with each part of the book. “It’s teaching him to organize, slow down, patience, ask for help. All the things you struggle with in ADHD.”

They send the completed parts of the book to Trum before Burk goes to sleep at night. “When we’re going to bed, she’s getting her day started. So, I have to have these thoughts organized.”

Then, she says, “I’ll wake up the next morning and she’ll have a draft of it.”

Weatherford and Burk attended WriterFest Nashville about a month ago at Belmont University. They’ve taken some short book tours with their first book, but they’re planning a longer book tour this summer with both books. As well as, hopefully, a new book by then, she says. “We’re hoping to get it done by the end of the school year.”

Burk is ready to move on to the next phase of book writing. He recently asked, “Mom, is there any way we can start writing chapter books?”

Weatherford responded, “Maybe one day you can take over and start writing chapter books.”

Burk also came up with a side project: a hot sauce called “Burning Bunghole,” which they’re already selling.

“Every time he comes to me with an idea, I jump on it. I love it. I love that he’s using that creative part of his brain. Let dreams inspire you.”

And, she adds, “The sky’s the limit whatever we decide to do. I want to do whatever I can to help him.”

Weatherford’s advice to parents? “Just get to know your kids. Spend time with them. Put your phones away. We need to slow down and look at what’s in front of us. Figure out what makes your child tick.”

And, hopefully, everyone will live happily ever after.

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Kathleen Weatherford and Payton Burk (Photo: Gretchen Shaw)
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Look for the Traditional and the Eclectic at Dvour Desserts

Tyler Jividen wasn’t big on cakes, cookies, and doughnuts as a child. “Growing up, I really wasn’t a huge sweets eater,” he says.

But now, as head baker at Dvour Desserts at 523 South Main Street, Jividen creates — and samples — about three new cheesecake flavors a week. Doing the math, he’s made more than 150 different cheesecake flavors in the past year.

Jividen, 33, grew up in Brighton, Tennessee, as one of two children of parents who cooked. He was an “open-minded eater,” who “kind of wanted to try everything,” he says.

When he was 12 years old watching the Food Network, Jividen got “super obsessed” with preparing food. “Just the basic alchemy of it. The building and layering of flavors. Being in tune with nature. The more I got into cooking, the more into nature I got.”

He always liked being outside. His parents always had a garden. “Mushroom foraging is something I do now as a hobby,” he says. “Instead of just roaming the woods, I now have a little more purpose for it.”

As a student at the old L’Ecole Culinaire, where he graduated in 2013, Jividen wasn’t interested in baking at first. Baking “involves too much science and precision. You have to be precise with everything, which ended up being what I liked about it.”

He “noticed something was there” when he worked with dough. Jividen met chef Derek Buchanan, an instructor at the school and “a phenomenon at making bread.”

Jividen stayed after class and watched Buchanan demonstrate all the steps it took to bake bread, including shaping and fermenting the dough. “I was hooked from there. When we were making dough and starting shaping it, there was something about having my hands in dough, shaping it, pressing it into certain shapes. There was something I really enjoyed about it. And I wanted to keep doing it.”

When he was 20, Jividen got his first restaurant job as a busboy at Texas de Brazil. “I got to wear the regular pants. It was just the gauchos that got to wear the big pants.”

But even as a bus boy, Jividen learned something about cooking. “There was the meat aspect over the fire that I really liked‚ something really primal.”

He worked in the prep station at Hog & Hominy before manning the pizza oven. Jividen was more interested in baking, but, he says, “There’s not really much opportunity here in Memphis. When you’re looking for a job as a high level bread baker, you don’t really have much of an option.”

Jividen moved to France for about eight months after getting an internship at Le Calabash in Yzeures-sur-Creuse, France. Working with Michelin star chef Sidney Bond, Jividen learned to “care for product and ingredients and keeping things seasonal, keeping things as local as possible.”

Care for products involved treating the refrigerator as a “cold garden,” he says. Carrots were carefully wrapped in paper towels that had been dipped in water. Fish had to be stored in the same direction. Flat fish that swam on the floor of the ocean had to be stored “on its belly.”

Jividen then moved to Dubai, where he worked with another Michelin star chef Greg Malouf at the Dubai International Financial Centre.

He didn’t get to do a lot of baking for the year and a half he was abroad, but Jividen did a lot of observing. “I went to every baker I could when I was in France.”

Jividen learned how bakers made “different types of croissants. The way they handle the dough. Types of butter they use. The butter they use there is just incredibly rich. Way more rich than the butters here.”

While in Dubai, Jividen got married. He and his wife Joyce, who is from the Philippines, moved to Seattle, where he worked as head baker at Canlis restaurant. “The West Coast has more access to local grain and different types of them. Whole grain is what I like most. It has more flavor. It’s more technical to work with.”

He also worked as a head baker at Bakery Nouveau. “That’s where I started learning about croissants, Danishes, and more warm brioches and puff pastries.”

After they had a child, Jividen returned with his wife and son to Memphis, where he worked at Catherine & Mary’s, P. O. Press, Erling Jensen: The Restaurant, and the cafeteria at Rhodes College.

He also was pastry chef at Comeback Coffee, where he used brioche dough instead of croissant dough.

Jividen learned about the job at Dvour Desserts from Tony Nguyễn, who was head bartender and a server at Texas de Brazil when he was there.

Dvour owner Travis Brady described what they were doing as far as making cheesecakes and cookies at the time. But, Jividen says, “I had the freedom to create new stuff and take it in a different direction. Assuming it didn’t suck.”

He makes little cheesecakes in silicon bowls and freezes them.

He also sells slices, including his turtle cheesecake. For example, he made a caramel cheesecake with an Oreo pecan crust topped with “Heath pieces, toasted pecans, and chocolate chips. I like to echo flavors a lot instead of doing a bunch of different flavors.”

Jividen also makes his popular Italian “bombolonis” — fried brioche stuffed with jams, jellies, or namelaka. “I like to add namelaka. The texture is lighter than a ganache but denser and richer than a mousse.”

He makes bombolonis every Saturday “from 9 until we sell out.”

They also make savory brioche with white cheddar cheese, sausage and a sweet brioche with pecans, brown sugar, and cream cheese on Saturdays.

He usually makes “one or two or three” new cheesecake flavors every week. “The cheesecake book is filling up pretty quick.”

And, he adds, “We keep five staples. Two flavors rotating seasonally and two rotating weekly or biweekly.”

Jividen’s key lime cheesecake is his most popular flavor at Dvour. “Somewhere between a key lime crust pie meets cheesecake. Rich, smooth, and creamy like key lime pie, but a lot denser. Rich and decadent like a cheesecake.”

For the Teladoc Health gala on January 31st at Clark Tower, Jividen is making a chanterelle cheesecake.

Dvour cheesecake staples include key lime, strawberry, cookies and cream, and one made from ube, a purple sweet potato from the Philippines.

He did a cranberry and gingerbread spice cheesecake with an Oreo crust for Thanksgiving. And, for the holidays, he made a bourbon praline pecan cheesecake.

Cheesecake flavors dance in Jividen’s head like sugarplums. “Making a peanut butter and jelly cheesecake has been on my mind for a long time. But every time I get ready to do it, muscadine season is over.”

Jividen also wants to make a cheesecake using caviar and espuma, which is “a foam you make in a canister. Not as thick as whipped cream, but like a champagne foam almost in a way.”

Biting into this cheesecake will be “like biting into air.”