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“Embrace Your Inner Memphis” Shirts by Eso Tolson – Favorite Find

Photo of Eso Tolson by Darius B Williams

The beautiful hand lettering created by designer and creative director Eso Tolson captures attention in and of itself, but when the message that the letters form are just as rich, the artwork reaches a whole new realm. Eso has taken one particular message and wears it boldly on a shirt: “Embrace You Inner Memphis.” As a Memphis transplant, Eso helps show that pride is also about where you are and not just where you come from.

You can purchase these t-shirts exclusively at Stock & Belle on South Main or follow him on Instagram or Facebook to keep up with upcoming pop-up shops.
See more of his work here.

If you have a shirt, feel free to tag a photo of yourself showing your pride with #embraceyourinner, and you could be chosen to be a part of the growing collection of fans on the “embrace your inner” instagram feed, which includes some familiar faces like Moziah Bridges of Mo’s Bows. I purchased a shirt at Stock & Belle for my brother John (pictured here) to represent Memphis in Singapore.

Embrace Your Inner Instagram Feed

Photo by Sophorn Kuoy

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Author Megan Mottley of The Glamour Girl Movement

Author and motivational speaker Megan Mottley has started a movement, encouraging women to embrace beauty holistically. Adding depth to the sometimes superficial term “glamour,” Megan hopes she can inspire positive change with what she calls The Glamour Girl Movement.

“A Glamour Girl exudes ‘true glamour’ and she possesses both inner and outer beauty. False glamour is having a boatload of outer beauty but not having one ounce of inner beauty. It’s pointless to look all pulled together on the outside but unsure of your purpose thus carrying around bitterness, jealousy, and lack of vision on the inside. True Glamour leads to freedom, peace of mind, and a bold walk of purpose and integrity,” explains Megan, as a model of “true glamour” herself.

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The Path to “True Glamour”

Originally from Memphis, Megan grew up in a traditional home with both parents, two older siblings, and a Christian foundation that she found key to developing her solid character.

”My parents are a huge influence. They didn’t have much but made the most of what they had. I grew up watching them make sacrifices for their children and doing their best to keep us on the right track. That taught me to focus on the most valuable things in life – family, happiness, and leaving a legacy,” Megan says.

She attended the University of Memphis on two scholarships majoring in English with a minor in journalism. She later returned to earn a Masters of Liberal Studies. During these college years, she found her purpose as a writer and freelanced for the University of Memphis’ school newspaper as well as local magazines including B. Visible Magazine, Grace Magazine, Memphis Entertainment News, and The Christian Banner.

She eventually took on role of editor for a grassroots publication, Proud Magazine, before eventually launching her own publication, DIVINE Magazine. Created as an inspirational magazine for young men and women of all races, it is currently in publication in over five states.

“People need hope in every area of their lives, and I strive to inspire people in everything that I do. I’ve lost friends to suicide, and I’ve had my own personal struggles so I know all too well how overwhelming life can be at times. I consider myself an agent of hope because it’s my daily duty to spread hope wherever I go. For the past 10 years, I’ve used my writing and editing skills to coach and assist other aspiring authors as well as assist clients with resumes, social media, and other multi-media projects,” she says.

Overcoming struggles is something Megan acknowledges as a path to growth. Sharing an example of one of her biggest struggles, she shows how to overcome it positively.

“Losing a dear friend about 3 years ago was one of the toughest things that I’ve faced in life. I was angry, hurt, disappointed, and deeply saddened by her sudden death. A mutual friend said something to snap me out of my grief—”Megan, I know you loved Tiereney but God loved her more.” It helped me to accept her death and lit a fire under me to honor her legacy. I worked diligently with my friend’s family to start a scholarship fund in her name—the Tiereney M. Edwards Scholarship Fund. Tiereney was a huge advocate for education and worked in admissions at Tennessee State University, often traveling to various cities to recruit prospective students. She was high-spirited and very passionate about higher education so each year the fund helps to provide students with book scholarships.”

“Glamour Girl: How to Get the Ultimate Makeover”
With all her talents as a writer, motivational speaker, and make-up artist, Megan developed The Glamour Girl Movement in 2011. Organizing a program structured for women to be more of what she calls a ministry. Her e-book “Glamour Girl: How to Get the Ultimate Makeover” provides ways to change inside and out.

“I was raised to focus on both—inner beauty and outer beauty. My mother thought that it was just as important to have a great attitude as it was to have on a great shade of lipstick. Women should work to enhance both their inner and outer beauty. A woman should always aspire to evolve—change your hair, try a new mascara, eat right, stay fit, update your wardrobe, dress modestly, be kind to others, watch the road rage, dream big, save your money, go back to school, write that book—be ever evolving,” she says.

Designed to “empower, ignite, and rejuvenate women through beauty,” The Glamour Girl Movement is about being confident and exuding it like a bright light. As a mother to a young girl, Megan quickly learned that she was a role model to her 14-year-old daughter Kaitlin and would be a positive one to her daughter and to those around her. More than just possessing the qualities of a positive role model, Megan embraces her role as “agent of hope” to teach others to find their own purpose and shares with us one more piece of advice:

“Keep Shining—-when no one is watching, when no one pats you on the back, when times get hard, or when you’d much rather quit. It’s so important to shine through every situation—good and bad. Yes, times will get hard but we should strive to let nothing dim our light but rather use every situation to learn, grow, and encourage the next person.”

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Her new e-book called, “The Modern Girl’s Guide To Fasting” is for women who need to find balance and purpose through the experience of fasting from food, beverages, social media, entertainment, etc., for a certain period of time. The e-book is filled with worksheets, journal pages, sample meal plans, focus prayers, purpose plans & more. Available at http://www.theglamourgirlmovement.com/shop. She is also available to host vision board parties and/or speak at women’s events, conferences and workshops about purpose, single parenting, publishing, and, of course, her “all time favorite topic—inner and outer beauty.”

If you would like to make a donation to the Tiereney M. Edwards Scholarship Fund, please send donations via PayPal to nancybedwards61@gmail.com or contact the Scholarship Office at Tennessee State University. 

For more information about all of Megan’s brands, please visit http//www.meganmottley.com.
To reach Megan for booking or general inquiries, email meganmottley@gmail.com.

Outfit Details
Hair & Makeup: Her own.
Jewelry: Traci Lynn
Jacket: Bagatelle
Black Top/Pants: Marshalls
Shoes: Calvin Klein
Clutch: Palizzio
Shoot Locaiton: Mulan Asian Bistro

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The New Pavo Salon in Midtown with Scot Robinson

Pavo Salon has settled into a prominent retail corner in Cooper-Young, reviving a former boutique space into their second salon in Memphis. Here’s a glimpse of the renovation as we get to know Pavo co-owner Scot Robinson even further.

“Memphis is seeing some good growth currently and we are excited to be a part of that! I began my career in Midtown so it was a coming home, so to speak.”
-Scot Robinson about the decision to open a location in Midtown.

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For over 15 years, Pavo Salon has served the Memphis community. The long-standing location in Laurelwood Shopping Center has been the base for their continued growth, but Scot contributes Pavo’s success more to their “intention,” developing great relationships for strong retention in guests as well as staff.

“The best compliment we receive is how friendly, helpful, educated, and committed our staff is and that our environment leaves you feeling warm and relaxed,” Scot continues.

The Pavo brand has aligned with a purpose for a “sustainable, socially responsible culture,” understanding that they can make a positive impact in seemingly small ways.

“From the service we provide, business decisions we make, recycling, the products we purchase, cleaning products and light bulbs, technology, training, campaigns for clean water (we have raised around $40,000), notable community drives, and the small decisions that we make in our everyday life leads to having a greater impact in what we do and who we are!”

Another layer to their quality of service is the longtime decision to be an Aveda lifestyle salon. Co-branded with Aveda, Pavo is committed to using only Aveda in their services and performing at a higher level to achieve this partnership. The retail component of Pavo strengthens this idea of being a lifestyle salon, bringing in products such as make-up and skincare. All these things have helped them grow with some recognition, most notably as one of the Top 200 salons as voted by Salon Today.

The idea of a second location was a natural step in expanding their brand.

“We have talked about expanding our brand for a long time. As they say, timing is everything. Memphis is seeing some good growth currently and we are excited to be a part of that! I began my career in Midtown so it was a coming home, so to speak. We have had a wonderful influx of new guests and look forward to establishing new relationships in yet another community in Memphis!” says Scot.

Co-owner Shawn McGhee, a longtime Midtown resident, describes Midtown as “the creative nucleus of Memphis.”
“There’s such a unique energy and diversity to the people that choose to live here and we wanted to be a part of that. Pavo is a natural fit during this time of growth and expansion of Midtown. As more upscale retailers are moving in, we thought this was perfect timing for expanding our business into this area,” he says.

The exterior of the building had been previously clad in wood slats that was complemented with a bright interior. The interior design was something both Scot and Shawn were involved in.

“Shawn and I both love to design. We knew most of what we wanted on the front end. Shawn is more the spacial person, whereas I tend to love color, texture and finishing details. We sought out the help of Graham Reese Design Group to help put all the elements together.” Scot explains.

“Scot and I wanted a space that was as functional as it was beautiful. Because this is such a visual profession, we knew that we needed plenty of natural light so that our team can perform their best work. We also have removed the traditional front desk that most hair salons have. We did this because we wanted to remove the barrier between the guest and the employee. We want to be sure that our guests have a very interactive, personal experience with each of our employees,” Shawn adds.

With the sleek tile floors that Scot decided on before they even had the space, the nicely lit interior sets the stage for the true focus of the space – helping clients look their best. Drawing inspiration from various mediums such as nature, runways, fashion magazines, and architecture, Scot adds in a bit of an edge to his classic style.

“I’m always willing to create something new for a client but that doesn’t always mean the latest ‘Pinterest’ hair,” he says.

Shawn has been Scot’s business partner since 2000 but has known him his entire career in the industry.
“Scot is unique in that he is an accomplished hairstylist and a natural leader, which in this industry is rare. Being a good hairstylist and a good leader are two separate skill sets entirely, and Scot can do both with such ease. Scot is very good at identifying people’s strengths and using those strengths to support the business,” Shawn says.

This particular day I visited, Scot was working on highlighting, cuts, and styling for clients, one he’s had for a client for 24 years.

“Micah has this beautiful natural golden copper hair that loses its vibrancy in the fall and winter. I chose to do a hair painting technique with a lighter golden shade and a medium copper. Hair painting is a surface technique that can allow very natural looking color with a bit of a lived-in effect. I like the artistry of a free-handed technique, it allows you to be as subtle or as bold as you wish,” Scot explains.

Scot and Pavo is also gearing up for their 5th year as a sponsor for Memphis Fashion Week. Abby Phillips, Director of Memphis Fashion Week, noted that Pavo has been the exclusive hair sponsor since year 1.

“Pavo Salon was a natural fit when I started Memphis Fashion Week in 2012. The creativity that Scot and Shawn bring to the table is like none other. They make our models feel comfortable and make my job of putting on the shows much easier. I know that Pavo Salon will create beautiful looks that make a huge impact on the runway,” says Abby.

“I sit in on model selections. I have met with emerging designers to discuss the look they want to achieve and worked with major designers to ensure their vision is told. We have had such a wonderful experience working with Abby Phillips and all those connected to this event. Abby truly respects our team’s creativity and allows us to push our boundaries each and every year. We look forward to another successful year!” Scot exclaims.

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Pavo Salon
2157 Central
(901) 818-0773

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Pavo currently has a $20 off any service for new guests. You can take advantage of this offer by liking Pavo’s Facebook page and redeeming the offer.

For every Elemental Nature Facial that you receive in February, guests will get a complimentary skincare starter kit.

Every year Pavo raises money for clean water. They partner with the Tennessee Clean Water Network, and over the course of the last few years have raised over $40,000. They are pleased to have two of the first water bottle refilling stations being brought to the Memphis area in their name — one at Shelby Farms Park and one at Tom Lee Park. Plans for this year’s fundraising are currently underway and will be tied in to Pavo’s Grand Opening. Pavo will pre-sell tickets only for this event, so stay tuned.   

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At Home Style with Scot Robinson of Pavo Salon

As stylist and co-owner of Pavo Salon, Scot Robinson has built a reputation for creating beautiful hair in an environment that gives attention to design and hospitality. It’s not surprising his own home does just the same.

In the comfort of his home, we introduce a more personal side of Scot before introducing his professional side. Here, we’ll see just how easily his sense of style carries through many aspects of his life.

“Style is a great way of saying who you are without speaking. I would like to say that mine says classic, bold, confident, comfortable, and relaxed. Whether it is selecting art, a piece of furniture or choosing something to wear, these characteristics always seem to show,” he says.

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With his dogs Toby and Marlie, we tour his mid-century modern home, which has already hosted a small wedding and previous photo shoots. Livability was evidently the top priority in the design of the home, inside and out. A well-manicured courtyard extends along the living spaces, both visually connected with a nice span of glass.

“I love house projects! I very much enjoy my yard. I’m always wanting to change something,” Scot professes.

Scot took on much of the interior design himself, though calling on Chris Crawford of CKC Design to completely renovate the master bath. Custom built in 1957, the home went through a thoughtful restoration and reflects both a modern and classic style.

When it comes to time away from home, Scot couldn’t pin point a so-called typical work day, especially since he and co-owner Shawn McGhee recently opened their second salon location in Midtown.

“There is nothing typical about any of my work days. It can be as simple as just standing behind the chair and getting to create beautiful hair or I can be in the office with my team working on what’s next. One thing you can count on is that I’m always moving,” Scot explains.

Another thing Scot is certain about is his choice to style hair, an interest that began very early on.


“As far back as I can remember, I was always fascinated by hair. I’m not sure if I always knew it would be my career but I knew it was something that came very natural to me. I chose not to go off to college after high school. I was 17 and not quite ready. I played for about a year, and my parents weren’t very happy with my choices. They were cutting me off and telling me I had to enroll in school immediately. Forced to make a decision, I knew that if I was going to spend my life working, I was going to do something fun and exciting. Hair was an art form for me and it certainly has been entertaining and exciting. 

The great thing about choosing this industry is you can create exactly what you want. I would have to say that it has been very rewarding in a lot of different ways. I’ve never second guessed my decision,” he explains.

Scot is a Memphis native who spent some time in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, right out of high school. His eventual return to Memphis was a welcomed return. He took ownership of his own salon in 1994, and in 2000, Pavo Salon was born when fellow stylist Shawn McGhee became co-owner.

“Memphis has been very good to me!” Scot exclaims. 

“Memphis can certainly get a bad rap sometimes, but the most amazing thing about Memphis is that it is genuine. We have such strong communities and that is very important to me. We have so many talented and successful people that have come out of Memphis and layers of all types of art. Why wouldn’t I want to be a part of that?! I can only hope that I am leaving some type of mark!”

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Stay tuned for the second part of this feature where we will visit Scot in the new location of Pavo in Midtown to see his work and the newly renovated space.

Outfit Details
Diesel jeans, which can be found locally at Baer’s Den. Shirt, H&M. Boots, Cole Haan

Home Details
Art by Ken Lecco and David Mah. Venice Tile: source for all tile. Ray Baudoin Interior Design: furniture and wallpaper. Mitchell Gold: lighting as well as some furniture.

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A Look at Kendra Scott

National brand Kendra Scott is the newest store to open in The Shops of Saddle Creek’s south expansion. Here is a look at their soft opening a few weeks ago.

The Kendra Scott jewelry brand is known for their use of natural stones in unique shapes, but as part of their business model they team up with local and national charities to give back to the community. This past Tuesday, they teamed up with Mo’s Bows to benefit Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis. This Saturday, December 5th, they join local blogger Laura Boswell of Walking in Memphis with High Heels to support Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital. Between 11 am to 2 pm, 20% of sales will benefit the cause.

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The boutique offers dramatic and simple necklaces with earrings that coordinate. Rings and bracelets round out the list with unique designs like the double ring wrapping two fingers with 3 stones. The signature offering is the “Color Bar” where pendants and earrings are customized in-house by choosing the shape, color, and stone.

If you are interested in hosting your own Kendra Gives Back event, contact the store at events@kendrascott.com.

Kendra Scott The Shops of Saddle Creek
7515 Poplar Ave, Suite 105
Germantown, TN 38138

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Boutique Peek: Soft Surroundings Opens in Saddle Creek

Last week The Shops of Saddle Creek welcomed its newest store Soft Surroundings, a multichannel retailer based out of St. Louis that began as a catalog company in 1999. As the brand’s name alludes, the merchandise focuses on softness from the clothes that touch your skin to the sheets on your bed, with fabrics they rate by softness. It was natural that they soon became a brick and mortar shop so that the shopping experience became tactile and the comfort of the materials could be conveyed firsthand. 

Entering the store, a luxurious bedroom surrounded by softly lit curtains reads as clearly as their entry signage “Soft Surroundings.” A array of women’s apparel from casual wear to holiday party line the walls. Mixed in are pieces of French-inspired furniture and gifts for kids and jewelry. Towards the back is one of the key unique offerings –  a beauty and make-up consultation space with staff always on hand. Products are curated skincare and make-up lines that are quality tested. They also offer perfumes and scents only found at Soft Surroundings.

The styles they offer do appeal more to middle-aged women but they also offer items that appeal to younger women. Particularly for this fall and winter, there were faux fur lined jackets, chunky scarves, knit hats, and dramatic jewelry.

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Soft Surroundings is located in Saddle Creek North next to Teavana and near the Apple Store. See the slideshow below for more photos.

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Meet the Women Behind the New Socially Conscious Brand Lesouque

Beautiful, unique, quality-made, and above all socially conscious – the goods that lifestyle brand Lesouque has carefully sourced represent an awareness that shopping can truly make a positive impact.

Lesouque founder Gokben Yamandag and co-founder Penelope Fisher launched their online store of these ethical goods this past summer, introducing up-and-coming designers to consumers around the globe. As with most retailers by this time of the year, they are promoting the start of the holiday shopping season but in quite a different way. This year, they are encouraging us to “Break up with Black Friday.”

“Think about the madness of Black Friday where you will probably buy things you might not need. The holidays are about family. Breaking up with Black Friday is saying, ‘stop and take a breather,’” explains Penelope, while also pointing out how in the end it helps you enjoy the holiday season.

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This mini campaign extends from their main goal to educate consumers that there are hidden costs of the items they buy and asks shoppers earnestly to “Think before you buy.” They also explain that the true cost of fashion does come at a cost, which usually ends up being at the cost of people making the item. Gokben herself has witnessed firsthand how the high demand for inexpensive and mass-produced goods can impact the well-being of these people. Working as a textile engineer over 10 years ago in Turkey, Gokben saw the harsh conditions in apparel factories that affected her deeply.

“I finally decided about a year ago that I wanted to change consumers’ minds and educate them about the manufacturing of clothes and home goods, so they are more informed about their decision to buy. I wanted to build something to help sell ethical items,” says Gokben.

Penelope came on board soon after Gokben made her decision to move forward with her idea. Hearing Gokben’s stories about the dark side of the industry, Penelope became more passionate about the educational component of the business. Though there is the effort to expose the dark side of the industry, Lesouque hopes to bring a bit of light to fashion by helping the public find products and designers they can feel good about supporting.

“The fun of it is helping market small and up-and-coming designers, some with no other place to sell like designers from Istanbul. In January, we took a trip to New York to meet many people from all over. California. Pennsylvania. We build connections and relationships and have become friends with most of them. Everyone works for the same goal,” says Gokben.

“We focus on the designers and the makers, those who treat their employees fairly. Beautiful items as you can see. Items I would wear. They are all things we love,” says Penelope.


Outfit Details

On Gokben:
Scarf: Subtle Stripes Scarf
by Hallie Gray
Bangles: Geometric Gemstone
by Jessica Tata
Bag: Istanbul Leather Clutch
by Ece Pinar Demirel

On Penelope:
Necklace: Ivory and Gold
by Irene Wood
Scarf: Woodside Scarf
by Lis Beck and Anne Sondergaard
Cuff: Eos Brass and Pyrite
by Brooklyn Medrano
Bag: Envelope Clutch
by Ece Pinar Demirel

All listed available at Lesouque.
Photographed at Terrace at the River Inn, Harbor Town Memphis.


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Upcoming Event
Pop up shop at Miss Cordelia’s Fall Festival
November 14, 11am to 3pm

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Here are a few astounding stats about the fashion industry compiled by Lesouque to help you “Think before you buy.”

  • 170 million children are engaged in child labour, with many making textiles and garments to satisfy the demand of consumers in Europe, the US, and beyond. (The International Labour Organization)
  • In Bangladesh, 85% of 4 million garment workers are women making $68 per/month – the lowest manufacturing wages in the world. This falls far short of the $104 monthly living wage that unions are asking for, according to the Australian Fashion Report 2015.
  • Fashion is one of the most polluting industries in the world, second only to oil in terms of its environmental impact. 25% of chemicals produced worldwide are used for textiles and the industry is often noted as the number 2 polluter of clean water – after agriculture.
  • It takes 2720 liters of water to make a t-shirt. That’s how much we normally drink over a 3 year period.
  • The average American family takes home 1,500 plastic bags a year – less than 3% of them are ever recycled. A single plastic bag can take up 500 years to degrade.
  • The average American throws away 70 lbs. of clothing and other textiles every single year. Only 15% of all textiles are recycled, leaving 85% in the landfills, equaling 21 billion pounds of post-consumer textile waste per year.

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Closet Essentials: Building a Wardrobe with Organized Style

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The transition of seasons encourages some closet organization and practical wardrobe assessment. As a supplement to last week’s post with Thuyvi Vo, we tackle how exactly does one create a wardrobe that works as a complete collection and how to organize your closet to ease the everyday choice of outfits. A few other fashion bloggers Kim Thomas, Tara Skelley, and Ariane Patrice also chime in on their closest essentials and organizing tips.

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Closet/Wardrobe Essentials
Our compiled list of wardrobe essentials touches on what everyone should have this season but mainly items that will last through many seasons.

• A coat, tailored and neutral
• A blazer, tailored
• Dress shirt, white or chambray
• A quality pair of denim jeans
• Boyfriend t-shirt, V-neck
• Pair of boots
• Pair of sneakers
• Pair of loafers
• Scarf, quality material
• Travel bags. Shown above are a coordinating set by Madewell.

A Styled Closet
A styled closet can mean less time getting ready since everything coordinates and is easy to find. Here are a few things you can do to organize and make your closet look like your favorite retail store with a livable quality.

• Matching hangers, such as all wooden hangers.
• Organize by color.
• Separate by season if your closet is big enough to hold all seasons. If not, pack away what you don’t need.
• Purge anything you don’t wear or love. Only keep what you love.
• Organize by type and order of layer. For example, things you put on first are on one side then work your way across to outer layers like sweaters and coats.
• A small stool will help as you as you get shoes on. It’s also a great step stool or display for your hat.
• A small plush rug like a sheepskin rug amps up the style while keeping your feet comfortable.

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Please let us know if you have any other suggestions for a stylish closet. Have a fantastic weekend.
Photographed at the Lofts at Merchants Row using Thuyvi’s wardrobe essentials.

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7 Inspiring Looks with Thuyvi Vo and A Look Inside the Lofts at Merchants Row


“Anyone can put clothes on; that’s easy, but what I want to know is the story your clothes tell.”
– Thuyvi Vo
 
Today, Thuyvi tells her story both through her words and through her inspiring style. A believer that clothes can speak gracefully about the life you love, she gives insight into her passions and how they’ve helped develop her sense of style – the definitive example of effortless.

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Thuyvi, pronounced /tree-vee/, moved to Memphis from Vietnam with her parents and two older brothers at age five.  “My family moved to America for the single reason most people do – better opportunities,” she says.

It’s also clear from knowing Thuyvi that she has a strong love for Memphis specifically, actively supporting and encouraging other Memphians around her. Her artistic endeavor Dear Sir Paper Co., illustrates it well with watercolor quotes such as “Memphis is It.”  As a creative, she often incorporates local artists and artisans in store events at Madewell in Saddle Creek, where she is store director. What does she take most from living in Memphis? – “the pride!”
 

“I genuinely love Memphis. It’s such a wonderful city. There are so many cool things happening here, and to be in the middle of it and witness the growth from the ground up is something I will always treasure. The resurgence of Overton Square, Crosstown, downtown and everything in between is truly remarkable. It just goes to show what we can accomplish together as a unified city with a vision. If you’re a naysayer, I’m sorry, but you can’t sit with us. Sorry for going Mean Girls on you.”

 
When asked about how her personal style developed, Thuyvi takes us back to her early childhood. She credits her mother for her love for clothes.

“I am the youngest of three and the only girl, so naturally, my mom was ecstatic when she found out she was having a little girl. I think my childhood closet could rival that of Carrie Bradshaw’s. My mom made all of the clothes, and I definitely rocked the ’80s trends like no other. However, somewhere in the middle, though still very interested in fashion, I cared less about the dresses and colors, and moved towards the minimalist and tomboy, much to my mother’s dismay. It was in finding my true style that I think I finally found my identity: simple and understated yet artful and refined, with touches of edge. Sometimes I like to push the envelope.”

Using the beautifully renovated Lofts at Merchants Row as our stage, Thuyvi shares 7 outfits that define her style from everyday to a night out.

“When I paint, jeans and tees are the way to go. Like I said before, I love simple graphics and own so many tees from all the places I’ve visited. If there’s a festival, and you’re selling t-shirts, I’ve probably purchased something from you. I tend to get paint on a lot of my clothes, but I still to wear it out. It’s a reflection of who I am and the life I live. Those little things, in my opinion, are the elements that specializes what you wear. Anyone can put clothes on; that’s easy, but what I want to know is the story your clothes tell.” 

“This is very much a “Monday” outfit for me. My typical Mondays are spent in the office crunching numbers and analyzing data. In order to do that, I need to be in my element, clothing and all. Nothing says comfort better than a sweatshirt, loose-fitting jeans and sneakers.” 

“I am a Madewell fanatic as you can clearly tell; however, I like to invest in interesting pieces that are timeless, like this top. I love simple graphics, especially ones that are linear. Confession: I have an obsession with shapes. For me, black and white is never a regrettable choice.”

“Talk about a denim tuxedo! It’s so interesting to me – people assume, because I look pulled together and “cool,” that I must spend a lot of time getting ready. Truth: I don’t. I wake up at 6:45am, make my way out of bed by 7:00am and leave the house by 7:15am. If you are purposeful in buying pieces you love that are versatile, you ultimately save so much time trying to get ready. The beauty of this formula – generally everything in your closet complements each other well. “

“This is one of my favorite outfits because it feels so effortless, yet it’s got this total cool-girl vibe. It’s my “Look Good and Get Shit Done” outfit.”

With Her Other Half – Jacob
“I met my husband at Republic Coffee through mutual friends. We share a lot in common – travel, arts, fashion, and best of all, he’s my favorite person to goof around with. And let me tell you, we are a pair of goofy people.

He works at Gibson and helps build guitars. Specifically, he works in final assembly, the last step before the guitars hit the market. He’s also their team leader, and he’s pretty fantastic at what he does, but it also helps that he has incredible worth ethic. That’s also another trait we share. I don’t think I could’ve ever married someone who wasn’t motivated to succeed. On top of it all, he’s an amazing guitarist. That’s how his job at Gibson all began – because of his passion for playing the guitar.

Though I am a terrible singer, Jacob and I really love making up songs. We’ll make songs about each other’s names, how our days are going, the weather – it doesn’t really matter. If it’s a part of our lives, we’ll make up a song for it. During these sessions, he’s usually playing the guitar or some kind of instrument picked up from around the house and I’m the choreographer. And by choreographer, I mean I usually bust out with moves you’ve probably never seen or probably never want to see.” 

“Black is my go-to date-night outfit. It’s easy, simple and classic, just like everything else in my closet.”

Pictured above is her favorite quote.  “She has fire in her soul and grace in her heart. That quote embodies how I want to live my life. The juxtaposition of those two words – fire and grace – is part of why I love this quote. I want my ambitions to burn bright like fire but be poised in execution,” she explains. Below she also explains the inspiration for finding quotes like these to paint.

“[Dear Sir Paper Co.] started as a creative outlet to offset my constant need to work 24/7. This forced me to make time to paint, so I wasn’t burned out from working constantly. I’m a big fan of social media, so I began posting my work just to share with my friends. I slowly started receiving requests for commission work, and that’s when I realized I could make this into something more. I participated in two juried holiday markets, Porter Flea and Memphis Indie Holiday Market, and absolutely loved it!  

“As for what inspires the art I make, it most definitely depends on my mood and the experiences that have helped shape those moods. There are days where I am jovial and in a quirky mood, those are generally the days I come up with my punny cards i.e. “You’re the radish.” Then there are days where I read these amazing stories about women empowering one another, and I’ll find this really great quote that coincides with it. I feel like I bring those words to life in a way when I am able to make art from it. It makes me feel like I played a small part in telling their stories. And every time I read the quote, I feel empowered because of it. It’s like my circle of life in art form: create art through use of powerful words, be inspired by powerful words, repeat.”

Using style powerfully is also something she has taught other women when they ask for her help in developing their wardrobe.

“One of the most frustrating things I hear is when people ask me about ‘the rules,’ as if there is some kind of handbook for dressing. I know this is totally cliche to say, but the only rule is that there is no rule. If you want to wear black and navy together, do it. In fact, I highly encourage it. Those colors look great together. And if you want to wear white after Labor Day, I’m certain there is no mythical taser that will zap you if you choose to wear it. 
 
Aside from that, I would encourage women to look in the mirror and list their favorite physical features and learn how to accentuate those features. For instance, I like my shoulders, so I try to wear tops that are sleeveless. I like my legs, so I cut the bottoms of all my jeans (that, and I am also short), so a little ankle skin is on display. Showing off the smallest part of your ankle helps elongate your legs, too. It’s all about finding the parts that make you feel beautiful. 
 
And before you leave the house each day, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you look good and will get shit done.” 

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Special thanks to Lofts at Merchants Row, APG Furnishings Memphis, Stock & Belle, Madewell, and Farmhouse Marketing.
All photos taken at Lofts at Merchants Row.

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Dress for Success Memphis presents The Little Black Dress Event

A few LBD committee members and volunteers. Front Row, Left to Right: Cynthia Daniels, Yevette Hughes, Sandra Burke, Tyria Perkins.  Second Row: Nykeshia Cole and Rebecca Bush. Photographed at Memphis Botanic Garden.

Tomorrow night, Dress for Success Memphis hosts its annual Little Black Dress Event at Memphis Botanic Garden. The fundraising event created around this classic essential also highlights an organization that helps transform the lives of women through fashion.

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“The LBD event is a chance to share our story,” explains DFS Memphis Executive Director Sandra Burke. “Donors and potential donors will meet our clients who be there as hostesses. Put on your favorite little black dress, and you’ll feel your highest.”

As Sandra points out her fascination with the history of the little black dress, it appears that the LBD story begins to touch on the positive effects of the organization’s story. Coco Chanel, credited to the introduction of the little black dress, designed and showcased a simple black dress in the 1920s worn by highly regarded women such as Edith Piaf. The LBD made its statement by being accessible to women of any social standing yet maintaining a chic appearance. The economy of the black fabric made it affordable, and the neutrality of black allowed the silhouette of the dress to become the focus. In essence, without the frivolity of details or another color causing distraction, a superbly simple black dress allows its wearer to shine and feel their highest.

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A sample of auction items donated by sponsors.

Dress for Success Memphis serves the community by helping low-income women make the transition into the workplace. DFS volunteers are “change agents” for these women by providing them with work-appropriate attire, counseling, and career development to help them feel their highest.

“It’s a wonderful organization. Women [we serve] gain self-sufficiency and independence and become more economically sound. We can all make a difference in their lives and in our community,” says Sandra about being change agents. 

Sandra Burke, DFS Memphis Executive Director.

Before becoming part of the Dress for Success Worldwide network in 1999, DFS Memphis began as the Career Closet, founded about a year before by Janelle Ray, an AmeriCorps Vista Volunteer, and Anne Jones, a member of Idlewild Presbyterian Church. Today, the non-profit organization has served around 500 women this year and over 6,500 women in the Memphis Metropolitan Area since its inception. Dedicated volunteer Ruby Dandridge has been with Dress for Success for almost 10 years, enjoying her role as personal shopper and mentor to these women helping them gain confidence in themselves. In the first client “suiting,” volunteers like Ruby work closely with clients to find the best professional outfit for them to wear to their job interview. Lives can change profoundly through just one outfit.
 

Ruby Dandridge, DFS volunteer.

The growing awareness of Dress of Success and more involvement by DFS worldwide and their national sponsors help the local affiliate keep their donation closets filled. Other ways people can help the organization are by donating money and time as a volunteer and, of course, by attending events like the Little Black Dress.

“It’ll be a fun evening where women can showcase their most darling little black dress and exotic shoes, while the men are displaying their favorite tie. There will be music, wine & hors d’oeuvres, a fashion show by White House Black Market, as well as a silent auction of wonderful items donated from local businesses to benefit Dress for Success Memphis,” says LBD event chair, Yevette Hughes. “One of the new thing this year is our cigar lounge. We want to embrace the male culture and get them involved with this event, and we will have our CEO from our Worldwide office for Dress For Success attending.”

As far as finding the right LBD, Yevette suggests finding the one right for you. “You want to make sure that you are comfortable and radiant with beauty.”

Event Details
The Little Black Dress, Thursday, October 15th, 6-9 PM at Memphis Botanic Garden.
Purchase tickets online at Eventbrite or at the event. Proceeds from the event will benefit Dress for Success Memphis.

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Other upcoming DFS fundraising events include the Upscale Boutique Sale on October 31st where they will sell their overflow of donated clothes, shoes, and accessories. Many items are still new marked at a discounted price. Proceeds benefit Dress for Success Memphis. It will be held at Dress for Success Memphis
2730 Colony Park Dr # 7, Memphis, TN 38118.