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Backstage at Calvary Waffle Shop

Mary O’Brien doesn’t waffle when Lent arrives. She knows she’s going to spearhead the kitchen at Calvary Episcopal Church’s Waffle Shop.

O’Brien, the church’s kitchen manager, has only been doing it for 16 years.

Waffle Shop, which is celebrating its 95th anniversary this year, is open for lunch Wednesdays through Fridays beginning the Thursday after Ash Wednesday and ending before the start of Holy Week.

The menu hasn’t changed much since Waffle Shop began in 1928. Diners know they’re going to get tomato aspic, shrimp mousse, Boston cream pie, waffles with or without chicken hash, and much more, including the infamous fish pudding.

“I was hired as the parish chef,” O’Brien says. “I do all of the cooking for all of the events at the church and that are going on at the parish.”

That includes Wednesday dinner, Sunday morning breakfast, and Sunday morning coffee hour. “We do funerals, weddings, and lots of outside events.”

A native Memphian, O’Brien didn’t do much cooking growing up. Her sister Elaine Carey is a trained pastry chef. “She’d ask me to help her with different events.”

O’Brien worked in an office for her father until Elaine and her husband, the late Joe Carey, moved from California to Memphis to open the old Memphis Culinary Academy.

After their father died, Elaine invited Mary to attend the school. O’Brien didn’t necessarily want to become a chef, yet, she says, “It was time for me to make a change. I wasn’t happy being in an office.”

But, she adds, “I caught the bug when I went to school.” Just being in class “really pushed me to appreciate good food ’cause we did fine dining and stuff like that.”

After she graduated in the early ’90s, O’Brien went to work at the old 25 Belvedere and Bistro Hemmings restaurants. Later, O’Brien and a partner opened Cafe Eclectic, where she stayed for about six years until taking the Calvary job.

She quickly learned the Waffle Shop recipes were set in stone. “I don’t know how many years those recipes have been there, but I was not allowed to veer away from them because I would be in trouble.”

She did add the seafood gumbo and vegetable soup to the menu.

Laurie Monypenny makes the desserts, and Connie Marshall heads up the waffle-making station. O’Brien and her staff of six make the rest of the food. “We do three huge pans of aspic, two huge pans of mousse. And the poor chicken salad guy, he just keeps on. We cook 120 pounds of chicken breasts and 80 pounds of leg quarters twice a week.”

Waffle Shop runs from 11 a.m. until 1:30 p.m., but O’Brien begins her day at 6 a.m. “I start the custard for the Boston cream pie.”

She usually ends her day about 4:30 or 5 p.m. “Taking inventory. And putting in orders.”

As for that fish pudding, people who’ve never tried the casserole are often skeptical until they taste it. “I think they just see it as maybe fish in Jell-O instant pudding or something. I don’t know.”

O’Brien removed some desserts from the menu over the years. And, she says, “We dropped the chicken livers, which is one of my favorites. It was kind of a small audience.”

Waffle Shop closed shortly after it opened when the pandemic hit in 2020, but it was open for take-out orders the next year. “They were lining up in the alley.”

O’Brien might waffle a bit when Waffle Shop closes for the year. She thinks, “Ohhh, can I do this again?”

But that thought vanishes. “Just these people that come in. It’s like old home week every day.”

Many volunteers have worked at Waffle Shop for decades. Same goes for customers.

O’Brien doesn’t do much cooking at home. “Luckily, my husband cooks.”

So, Kevin O’Brien has dinner ready every night she gets home from Waffle Shop? “Well, I won’t go that far.”

Calvary Episcopal Church is at 102 North Second Street.

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Calvary Waffle Shop Returns March 3rd

I’m addicted to tomato aspic, chicken salad, pear with cottage cheese, shrimp mousse, and lots of homemade mayonnaise. That’s a.k.a. the Calvary Episcopal Church Waffle Shop’s “Salad Plate.”

I’m happy to announce that the Waffle Shop, a 93-year-tradition, will return March 3rd and will run through April 8th with its Lenten menu, including the Salad Plate, the delicious “Boston Cream Pie,” and “Fish Pudding,” which is actually tasty and isn’t anything like the name implies.

Connie Marshall, of the Waffle Shop, says there have been some adjustments this year. “We have cut back on a few things,” she says. But the aforementioned items, as well as corned beef and cabbage, turnip greens, and other favorites will still be available. “With a few exceptions, it’s pretty much everything.”

And the Waffle Shop will basically go back to the way it was operated before the pandemic, Marshall says. Instead of strictly take-out meals, which Waffle Shop offered in 2021, people will once again be able to eat in the Mural Room at the church at 102 North Second Street. “You go to the table,  fill out your paper menu, and pay on your way out,” says Marshall.

You can still order to-go food, but all the advance to-go ordering over the phone has been done away with, Marshall says. “It’s, basically, back to the old way.”

Lunch will be served between 11 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. Wednesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays, as well as an evening meal from 5:15 to 6:15 p.m. on Wednesdays. The Waffle Shop’s tenure coincides with the Lenten Preaching Series, which is held at the church between 12:05 to 12:40 p.m. on Wednesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays, and from 6:15 to 7:15 p.m. on Wednesdays. Sixteen speakers will be featured. 

COVID protocols will be announced closer to Waffle Shop’s starting date, Marshall says.

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Calvary’s Lenten Preaching Series and Waffle Shop Returns February 19th

Michael Donahue

Calvary Episcopal Church’s annual Lenten Preaching Series and Waffle Shop returns with some changes due to the pandemic. That means the delectable salad plate will be available for takeout.



Well, happy day. I’m going to get my favorite tomato aspic after all. And we’ll all get to hear some noted speakers because Calvary Episcopal Church will launch its 98th annual Lenten Preaching Series and Waffle Shop February 19th.

There will be a few differences this year because of COVID 19. Some speakers will participate by recorded messages and others will speak at the church. Those who attend the in-person services will sign up in advance, wear masks, and sit spaced apart from others. Also, local musicians will perform before the speakers begin. 

The preaching series, which will be live-streamed at 12:05 p.m. Wednesdays and Fridays, will include national and local spiritual leaders.

Among the speakers will be Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s friend Rev. James Lawson, poet and host of the Poetry Unbound podcast; poet and theologian Pádraig Ó Tuama; and award-winning author of books on religion, spirituality, and recovery, Rabbi Rami Shapiro. The series will be live-streamed on Calvary’s Facebook page, YouTube channel, and website. 

In addition to the noontime experience, Calvary offers Lent After Dark live podcast recordings with guest speakers from 6:30 p.m. to 7:30 pm. each Wednesday. The podcasts will be live-streamed.

And my aspic will be available for takeout only at Calvary’s Famous Waffle Shop. It will serve homemade waffles, Calvary Salad Plate, fish pudding, and more between 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. Wednesdays and Fridays, and from 5:15 p.m. to 6:15 p.m. on Wednesdays. Orders must be placed 24 hours in advance on Calvary’s website. All proceeds from the Waffle Shop support outreach ministries in Memphis. 

For a complete listing of the Preaching Series schedule, visit calvarymemphis.org/lps. For more information about the Lenten Preaching Series or the Waffle Shop, call 901 525-6602. 

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Mardi Gras in Memphis

Michael Donahue

I didn’t realize the Mardi Gras-colored Hernando de Soto Bridge and its reflection created a ‘guitar’ design until I looked at this photo I took on Fat Tuesday. How Memphis can you get? I love when things work out like that.

Calvary Episcopal Church let the good times roll at its annual Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off.

Mardi Gras was the theme with eight gumbo teams. Lots of King Cake, feathery masks, and beads were on hand. The only thing missing were floats, unless rice floating in savory broth counts.

“We were raising money for our Youth Ministries at Calvary,” says Youth Ministries director Gabbie Munn. “It allows us to alleviate costs for our summer service trips. This summer our middle schoolers will be doing a week here in Memphis and our high schoolers will be doing a week in New Orleans.”

In addition to gumbo, the event included pancakes and sausage. “Some people brought chili and Creole lagniappe as substitutions for their gumbo. But the teams got pretty creative with what they classify as their own gumbo.”

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Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off

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Franklin G. Barton IV and his son, Franklin Bradley Barton, manned a gumbo booth at the Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off, which was held on Fat Tuesday.

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Ruth McClain and Gabbie Munn at Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off.

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Matthew Tetreault and Mary Thompson at the Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off.

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Nino Shipp wore a pair of earrngs shaped like King Cake babies at the Krewe of Calvary Gumbo Cook-off..

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Ninth Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest.


About 15 teams participated in the ninth annual Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest, which was held February 16th in the Pipkin Building at the Fairgrounds.

“We raised approximately $13,000,” says Ginger Leonard, state wide TEP board chair and president. “And this goes to the Tennessee Equality Project Foundation, which is our educational arm of the Tennessee Equality Project.”

This year’s winners were Roux’d Awakening, which came in first place; Mystic Krewe of Pegasus, which came in second place; and Mom’s Demand Action, which came in third.

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Ninth Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest.

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Ninth Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest.

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Ninth Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest.

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Harbinger of Spring II: King Cake. This is one from Gambino’s bakery in New Orleans.

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Harbinger of Spring III: The Waffle Shop at Calvary Episcopal Church. The luncheon and speaker series runs Tuesdays through Fridays from now until April 3rd. This is my favorite: the Calvary Salad Plate.

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On the Scene: Homeless Point-in-Time Count

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Volunteers passed out surveys to individuals experiencing homelessness

About 100 volunteers met at Calvary Episcopal Church Downtown early Wednesday morning to help with the annual Point-in-Time Unsheltered Count.

The count is required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) and done across the country. It’s meant to serve as a snapshot of those experiencing homelessness on a particular night in January. Each count is planned, coordinated, and carried out locally by volunteers.

Here, the Community Alliance for the Homeless (CAFTH), which leads a community effort to end homelessness, organized the count.

Inside the church, volunteers received brief instructions before breaking into groups and heading to assigned neighborhoods to collect data on homeless individuals. I joined three other volunteers, including a bishop and one of the organizers of Wednesday’s effort, Christine Todd, to cover Downtown.

As the sun rose and broke through the clouds, Todd drove us through Downtown looking for anyone that might be homeless. The goal was to locate unsheltered individuals and ask them a list of survey questions, including basic information such as their birth date, ethnicity, and how long they have been homeless, as well as more personal questions, such as whether or not someone making them feel unsafe or drugs or alcohol use has contributed to their homelessness.

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We wore yellow traffic vests and name tags and carried two canisters, one with hot chocolate and the other with coffee. We looked down alleys, on park benches, and doorways. We even knocked on a Porta Potty door looking for a man named Marcus, who had recently told Todd that’s where he had been sleeping.

Todd, who is the community ministries coordinator at Calvary Episcopal Church, has built relationships with homeless individuals living Downtown through her work with the church.

On Sunday mornings, the church opens its doors to homeless individuals, serving them breakfast and providing them with clothes, blankets, and toiletries.

“Did you sleep outside last night?” Todd asked, as we approached a young man curled in a sleeping bag directly behind city hall. The man, who Todd recognized as a regular at Calvary, shivered as he peeked out from under his blanket. He agreed to do the survey, telling us he’s been homeless for four years. He has no job and no sources of income.

During our three-hour shift, we surveyed about a dozen individuals. We encountered most of them in the courtyard of St. Mary’s Episcopal Cathedral on Poplar, where every Wednesday morning there is a service and free community breakfast.

A group of individuals gathered around a fire pit in the church courtyard. Some passed by on their way into the church service, speaking to any familiar face they saw.

I surveyed a man in his late 50s who has been sleeping in a tent on the church grounds for a couple of years. “I’ve been down on luck” and unable to find a job, the man said as he splashed some lighter fluid into the fire pit, rekindling the flame. “The winters are the worst,” he said.

The man said he spends his days looking for a job, but he doesn’t like to venture too far from his homebase, as he worries someone will steal his belongings. Despite his circumstances, the man said he’s grateful for the resources and services he’s able to get from places like St. Mary’s, the Memphis Union Mission, and soup kitchens nearby.

“Obviously, no one wants to be homeless, but if you’re in this area and you don’t have anything, there are plenty of places around to give you what you need,” he said. “There’s no reason to not have the basic stuff.”

The information collected Wednesday will be submitted to HUD and used to determine what resources Shelby County needs to address homelessness and provide housing for unsheltered individuals.

Last year’s count, recorded a total of 1,325 homeless individuals in Shelby County. Of that number, 58 were unsheltered, and 1,267 were in transitional or emergency shelters.

Todd questions the accuracy of the number of unsheltered individuals, saying there are never enough volunteers to count every person sleeping on the streets.

Cheré Bradshaw, the executive director of CAFTH, said Wednesday’s count is not 100 percent accurate, of course, but data on homelessness is collected throughout the year by alliance’s partner organizations.

“So we have a really good idea there,” Bradshaw said. “This is just a snapshot that HUD uses to figure out how many homeless people we have, if we’re doing okay, or if it’s increasing. And they realize this is not totally accurate, but we keep doing it the same way so you can see some trends.”

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Bradshaw said homelessness is a big issue in the county, “but we’re doing really well ending it, at least for a lot of people.” CAFTH’s goal is to end long-term homeless and make future homelessness “rare, brief, and one-time,” Bradshaw said. “We know that people will become homeless, but they don’t have to sit out there for a year.”

CAFTH uses a housing-first model to get people into permanent housing through a permanent supportive housing initiative. The initiative provides chronically homeless individuals with affordable housing assistance and other support services.

“And people stay,” Bradshaw said. “Ninety-six percent of the people that go in stay, which is really good.”

The alliance also helps families with rapid re-housing. “We have a pretty good amount of that, so there’s never enough for everyone. But we’re trying.”

Bradshaw said CAFTH also helps find emergency shelters for those in need, but “we don’t have enough of those either.” She said that additional emergency shelters are likely the greatest need in the county right now.

“So we know how to do it, if we just had enough money to do it.” Bradshaw said. She adds that the county could benefit from additional funds for emergency shelters and affordable housing, as well as services that help families navigate the housing system. “We don’t have the funds to do that at the level we would like to.”


Bradshaw’s work is motivated by the notion that “no one should be homeless.”

“To tell you the truth, my father was really sick and if he hadn’t had the resources and the care that me and my sisters were able to provide for him, he would have probably been homeless,” she said. “When I see people on the street, I can see how that could have been my dad. The only difference is my dad had the resources. And that makes me want to help people.”

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Stumbling Santa, Jingle Bell Ball, Emmanuel Meal

MIchael Donahue

This isn’t me, but I wish I’d thought of it. This is a Joker Santa at Porter-Leath’s Santa Pub Crawl. More photos follow.

Everyone got to be Santa for a night at the Porter-Leath Stumbling Santa Pub Crawl. But some people opted to be elves or reindeer.

About 3,500 people attended this year’s event, which was held December 7th. It began at Flying Saucer Draught Emporium and continued to Beale Street.

“It has grown every year,” says Rob Hughes, Porter-Leath’s vice president of development.

Guests were asked to donate toys. They received “somewhere between 3,000 and 3,500. We filled the truck.”

About half the guests brought money. They raised about $3,000, Hughes says.

For the first time in its 15-year-history, Stumbling Santa founders Bob Burditt and Roland Shapley didn’t host the event. Burditt and Shapley passed the torch to Ian and Katie Haywood.

As Bob says: “We’re a couple of old farts. We want to let the younger people do it.”


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Jingle Bell Ball

Jingle Bell Ball – a group of parties for children and teenagers held on the same day – celebrated its 31st anniversary December 8th.

“Can you believe anybody doing anything 31 years?” says the ball’s founder/general chairperson Pat Kerr Tigrett. “I just can’t give it up. It’s the kickoff date for the whole holiday season for me. Seeing amazing children.”

The parties, which were at the Peabody, drew about 750, Tigrett says. “That’s an awfully lot of kids in one afternoon to deal with.”

The series of parties include one for special needs children, the Cookie Party for toddlers through second grade, one for third and fourth graders, and another one for fifth through sixth graders.

Tigrett used to do a party for seventh and eighth graders. She noticed the young women were showing up in limousines with book bags. Tigrett thought they were “going to study at the Jingle Bell Ball.”

But, she says, “The book bags were full of beer. They were hiding the beer in the poinsettias. But I didn’t know that until I finally caught them.”


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Jingle Bell Ball

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Jingle Bell Ball

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A turkey feast was served at Emmanuel Meal at Calvary Episcopal Church.

Emmanuel Meal – a holiday tradition at Calvary Episcopal Church – celebrated its 40th anniversary December 16th.

“Our mission at Calvary is making God’s love visible in downtown Memphis,” says Christine Todd, Calvary’s coordinator of community ministries. “So, one of the ways we do that is by inviting our homeless and disenfranchised neighbors to a lovely meal with an abundance of love and volunteers.”

This year’s event drew 387 guests, Todd says. “We had over 100 volunteers from Calvary. It took three days of preparation – not counting weeks of raising money and doing different things.”

Guests were treated to a turkey feast, a new coat, a new pair of socks, gloves, hats, and other gifts. “Macy’s and Soles4Souls donated 400 brand new coats. A lot of the people who got them had never had a new coat before.”

And, she says, “Bombas gave us 2,050 socks, but we’ve been using them all year.”
And Empty Bowls “gave us a generous donation,” she says.

Ed Crenshaw cooked all the turkeys. And Calvin Turley organized all the musicians.

Episcopal bishop Phoebe Roaf also attended. “She is a servant leader,” Todd says. “She came and greeted people with Rev. Scott Walters.”

Roaf and Walters also volunteered. “They walk the walk.”

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Helario Reyna and Jenny Maddon at Calvary Episcopal Church.

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Roman Darker, Margaret Newton, Darius ‘Mak’ Clayton, and Rev. Audrey Taylor Gonzalez at Calvary Episcopal Church.

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Church Proposes New Jobs Program for Panhandlers

What if, instead of giving panhandlers a dollar or some spare change, we gave them a day’s work? That’s what Calvary Episcopal Church is proposing with a new program aimed at getting panhandlers off the streets and into odd jobs picking up litter or clearing out weeds.

Earlier this week, Calvary hosted a summit for area homeless agencies, business leaders, and government officials in the hopes of gaining both financial support and a commitment from city and county leaders to partner with them on their Willing to Work Memphis program.

Willing to Work would be modeled after a successful program in Albuquerque, New Mexico, in which a volunteer drives a van around town picking up panhandlers and offering them temporary work provided by that city’s public works department. Those who participate make $9 an hour. Since Albuquerque’s program launched last September, 17 participants have transitioned into full-time jobs, and 11 people have been enrolled in mental health services.

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The Rev. Christopher Girata of Calvary Episcopal said a similar program could be launched in Memphis for $150,000, which he said would cover the cost of the van, gas, lunches, and storage for participants’ belongings (and even pets) while they work. Ideally, Memphis’ public works department would identify work sites, and payment for the day’s work would be donated by partnering agencies.

“No one agency or church needs to shoulder this burden alone. We can do it together,” Girata said.

He said some aspects of the program would require city or county oversight, such as how to handle background checks for the temporary workers and training for the van driver to be able to “roughly evaluate a person’s capacity for employment.” He recommended that drivers not Breathalyze potential workers but rather determine sobriety by monitoring a person’s behavior.

At the summit, Memphis Mayor Jim Strickland and Shelby County Mayor Mark Luttrell both voiced support for the program. Strickland said he’d talk with the city’s public works department about the proposal. Luttrell said the county appropriates funds annually for blight remediation, and he thought those funds might be able to help support the program.

Kevin Kane, CEO of the Memphis Convention & Visitors Bureau, said his organization would offer some financial support as well.

“We have visitors who come here from all over the world, and they’re often alarmed by our aggressive panhandlers,” Kane said.

But Kane cautioned that some panhandlers around town are part of a network of people who aren’t actually homeless, and he advised that the program should include some way to screen out people who don’t actually need the services.

Girata told those at the summit that, when he first moved to Memphis, he was struck by all the “No Panhandling” posters in downtown windows.

“Rather than punitively saying ‘You can’t do that,’ why don’t we give them an option instead of panhandling?” Girata asked.

Calvary will host a follow-up meeting on Wednesday, February 24th at 4 p.m. for homelessness agencies, business groups, downtown stakeholders, and anyone who would like to help support the program.

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Tea and Honey

Eyleen Farmer isn’t the kind of person you’d expect to meet in the back of a police car. With her stylish glasses and sunny demeanor, she seems less like a felon, more like a schoolteacher or life coach. And yet, on August 19th, there she was, riding through South Memphis with Lt. Chris Moffat.

“It was so interesting,” remembers Farmer. “I heard language that I’ve never heard before.”

In case you’re wondering, Farmer — the associate rector at Calvary Episcopal Church — didn’t commit a crime. Rather, she was doing research for her new project, a nonprofit that will provide jobs and workforce training to former prostitutes. On her ride-along with Lt. Moffat, she ultimately met six women who were charged with selling their bodies.

“What I learned,” Farmer says, “is that nobody is doing this by choice. Nobody, when they are a little girl, says this is what I want. Down to a woman, they were victims of rape and abuse. I remember one girl actually said she was doing it to pay her MLGW bill.”

In Farmer’s nonprofit — called, for now, Friends of Thistle Farms — former prostitutes will be paid to grow herbs and keep bees. They will then process, package, and market what they harvest, in the form of consumer goods like herbal tea, honey, and lip balm.

Meanwhile, the women will live at the Community of St. Therese of Lisieux, a two-year residential program where they will receive healthcare, drug treatment, and counseling. It’s a model that Farmer is borrowing from Nashville’s Thistle Farms, which has helped hundreds of women and raised $13 million dollars since its founding in 2001. Chris Girata is the rector at Calvary, the church that is incubating the new nonprofit.

“We can wax poetic about changing lives all we want,” says Girata. “But the reality is that these women have bills to pay. They need a job. With this program, we can say to them, stop selling yourselves, and start doing some honest work — today.”

Last week, I donned a pair of white polyester coveralls and went with Farmer to feed the bees. We were accompanied by John Burruss, the vicar at Annunciation Episcopal Church in Cordova. Annunciation, which has partnered with Calvary on the project, will host both the beehives and the herb garden.

“For a long time,” says Burruss, zipping up the hood on his beekeeping suit, “we had been wrestling with how to be better stewards of our 11 acres. Like, how can we deepen the community’s connection to the land? How can we be more sustainable with our resources? As soon as Eyleen told me about this, I knew it would be a good fit.”

At first, Friends of Thistle Farms had just two beehives, which they purchased. But they got some pennies from heaven last month when two additional hives were discovered in the belltower of Calvary’s Memphis cathedral. Professionally relocating the bees was an expensive, daylong process that involved vacuuming up nearly 100,000 individual insects. But Eyleen Farmer took it as a sign that she was doing something right.

“It was impossible not to think of it as a God thing,” remembers Farmer. “I don’t wanna get too woo-woo about it, but it was thrilling, frankly.”

For now, Friends of Thistle Farms is still in development. Both the garden and the beehives are tended by volunteers, and Farmer says the first women participants won’t join until 2015. But this week, the nonprofit is holding its first fundraiser: a tea party called Scarborough Fair.

At Scarborough Fair, attendees will be able to purchase half-pint jars of the nonprofit’s first honey harvest. There will also be a tea brew-off, in which participants compete to see who can prepare the tastiest herbal blend. The event (details below) is free and open to the public, although there is a suggested $20 donation.

Going forward, Friends of Thistle Farms hopes to work with the district attorney’s office to help former prostitutes expunge their criminal records. Because, they say, housing and workforce training won’t count for much if these women can’t get a job in the real world. It’s an ambitious plan, but I still had one question: Why does Farmer feel compelled to do this work?

Before becoming a minister in 1994, she explains, she also served as a hospice chaplain and an administrator at an incest survivors group.

“I met these women,” remembers Farmer, “whose sense of self-worth had been shattered, but who, despite their brokenness, had a longing and a determination to be whole human beings. And I found that so inspiring.

“What I learned,” she adds, “is that we’re never too broken to become whole again. There’s nothing anyone can do to put us beyond redemption. And I want to be a part of that healing in these women’s lives.”

Scarborough Fair at 3342 Waynoka. Sunday, October 19th, 4-6 p.m.

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Waffling

In the cookbook The Shrimp Mousse and Other Waffle Shop Recipes, there’s a cartoon fish, with a fabulous moue, saying, “Yep … It’s tuna salad” to an incredulous-faced chicken, who answers, wings on hips, “Well I nevah!” The joke, you see, is that Calvary Episcopal Church’s annual Lenten Waffle Shop has never served tuna salad. Nevah!

But you knew that, right? The Waffle Shop has been around since 1928, and much of the menu remains the same. The guest’s plate — a scoop of yellow, a triangle of red, and a carpet of green — is familiar to those sacrificing Lent-ers (and to those others who never give up a thing but take advantage of the shop nonetheless).

Most infamous of all the Waffle Shop offerings is the Friday special: fish pudding, a gratin-y casserole of fish, eggs, butter, cracker crumbs, and other ingredients. Then there’s the brilliant-red tomato aspic and the very pretty orange, cayenne-spiked mayonnaise. And, oh yes, there are waffles as well. They’re a bit plain-Jane next to all the retro array, but I, for one, have never heard anyone say they didn’t like waffles. Nevah!

The Waffle Shop at Calvary Episcopal Church, 102 N. Second. Monday-Friday, 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. through April 15th. The Lenten Preaching Series is from 12:05 to 12:40 p.m. For the Preaching Series schedule and the Waffle Shop menu, go to calvarymemphis.org.