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OUTMemphis is New Name for MGLCC

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has changed its name to OUTMemphis in an effort to be more inclusive of the entire gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer community.

OUTMemphis was established as the MGLCC more than 27 years ago, and although the center has served the entire community through its programs, the original name didn’t include a mention of the bi, trans, and queer communities that may not identify as gay or lesbian. The center began considering a name change eight years ago as it began adding paid staff and expanding its services.

“Changing our name reflects our efforts to be more responsive to and inclusive of all LGBTQ people in Memphis and the surrounding areas,” says Will Batts, OUTMemphis Executive Director, in a press release. “Our new name mirrors the change this organization began eight years ago. It honors the diversity of our board, our staff, our volunteers, our visitors, and our services.”

OUTMemphis’ programs range from support networks, social activities (like potlucks), HIV testing, and workshops to educate the wider public about LGBTQ issues. OUTMemphis is also working to launch a project that will house homeless LGBTQ teens.

Here’s a statement from OUTMemphis’ press release on the name change:

We have known for a while that our name did not reflect our full identity — as individuals, as an agency, or as a community. So we set about to change it. No combination of letters describing our individual identities could do full justice to our diversity; no acronym would encompass every way in which we define and describe ourselves. So rather than focus primarily on our individual identities, we chose a name that would express our vision, our mission, our hopes, and our dreams of a living in a world that respects all LGBTQ people. Thus we have become OUTMemphis: The LGBTQ Center for the Mid-South.

Regardless of how we identify as individuals, we all seek a world where we can live openly, honestly and authentically. We desire a community that celebrates and respects us fully as parts of the whole. A community that respects US, and not a caricature or incomplete identity we put on simply to live in peace. We each deserve to live as openly as WE choose to be. We expect the freedom to be open about who we are and about whom we love. We deserve to be OUT, as OUT as we choose to be. Working to make that vision a reality is what we do every day at — in dozens of ways, in hundreds of settings, and for thousands of clients and allies each year.

Just as our new name highlights our vision of a better world, our new image reflects our mission. The rainbow illustrates the diversity, passion, and POWER of our people, interlocked and CONNECTED through a central hub, working to EDUCATE ourselves and others about the LGBTQ experience, and turning that knowledge into ADVOCACY that demands equality and safety for all of us wherever we are. We do not imagine ourselves the only place where this happens. However, as the only center like us for several hundred miles in every direction, we have a special responsibility to serve as many people as we can, as best as we can, and in as many ways as we can.

Our movement — the LGBTQ struggle for full equality and inclusion — has made too many advances to accept retreat. We understand that not every person can be out and fully honest. We know that right now we live in a world where the costs of being out can be too high to bear for some people. As an agency and as a movement, even with that understanding, we can no longer accept being silent, being hidden, or being in the closet. Someday in the future, there may be no need for coming out, because there is no “in.” Until that day, we will continue to fight, to educate, to support, and to stand proud. Open, authentic, and OUT.

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Local Transgender Community Bands Together in Wake of Anti-LGBT Bills

Friedrich Nietzsche (or Kelly Clarkson or Kanye West) said it best: “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” As LGBT Tennesseans (and especially transgender Tennesseans) faced one of the worst years for anti-gay and anti-trans legislation, the local trans community has begun to band together.

Last week, the Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) hosted the first meeting of the center’s new transgender committee, which was immediately followed by a transgender flag-raising ceremony.

The trans flag consists of five horizontal stripes — two in light blue, two in pink, and a white strip across the center.

“We had a transgender flag here before, but it was much smaller than the rainbow flag, and it was in rags and tatters,” said Kayla Gore, the transgender service specialist at MGLCC. “We wanted to make sure the trans community felt welcome here. Now, from down the street, you can see our flag and know that you’re welcome here.”

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The MGLCC raised a larger transgender flag last week.

Gore said MGLCC is starting a new support group for transgender men, who were previously lacking their own group, on Friday, April 29th. And she said the center formed its new transgender committee to help the community stay informed about future statewide political threats or local issues.

“It’s good to have organization when there’s so much stuff going on. If we’re not organized, we’re not going to be prepared for what’s coming,” Gore said.

The “stuff going on” that Gore is referring to includes a number of anti-LGBT bills that were considered (and passed) in the now-adjourned General Assembly this past session. A bill that would have banned transgender students at public schools and universities from using the restroom that corresponds with their gender identity was pulled by its sponsor, Rep. Susan Lynn, at the last minute.

But another bill, which has come to be known as Hate Bill 1840 by its opponents, that passed has potential to negatively impact the LGBT community in Tennessee. Governor Bill Haslam signed the bill into law on Tuesday, and it allows counselors to deny service to any client who conflicts with the counselor’s “sincerely held beliefs.”

The bill could have far-reaching impact, but Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Executive Director Chris Sanders said the LGBT community is intended as the primary target.

“Conceivably, sexism and racism are sincerely held principles, too. At this point, it’s so wide open, it’s ridiculous, and it defeats the purpose of having a counseling code of ethics,” Sanders said.

According to Sanders, the LGBT community in Tennessee has “never had a year like this” in regard to anti-LGBT legislation and says that’s likely due to backlash from the U.S. Supreme Court decision last year legalizing same-sex marriage. Earlier this year, the Tennessee House passed an anti-same-sex marriage resolution condemning the Supreme Court decision.

Sanders said he’s expecting the transgender bathroom bill to be back next session, and TEP is working to strengthen ties with religious organizations that may help them fight such bills in the future.

“We want to engage members of conservative denominations who are tired of religion being used for discrimination,” Sanders said.

Next time around, TEP may have some help from a new political coalition that’s forming in Memphis. The West Tennessee Transgender Political Coalition (TTPC) has started a Facebook page and plans to hold its first meeting soon.

“We’ll meet once a month to update everyone on political news, and we’ll be looking at local trans issues or school issues. We want to get people together to stand against any anti-trans legislation that comes up,” said Victoria Hester, the assistant coordinator for the coalition.

The local coalition is affiliated with the statewide TTPC, which also has factions in East and Middle Tennessee. An older version of the West Tennessee group disbanded years ago.

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MGLCC Conducts LGBTQ Census

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has launched a census project to help them get a more accurate picture of the LGBTQ community. 

The anonymous survey asks questions about sexual orientation, gender identity, how comfortable a person is being “out” to family, co-workers, faith communities, etc. It also surveys participants on what LGBTQ issues are most important to the Mid-South community (i.e. making Memphis safer for trans people, preventing school bullying of LGBTQ students, housing LGBTQ homeless youth, etc.).

The survey will be available through April 8th online. Those who would rather fill out a paper copy may do so at MGLCC (892 S. Cooper) during regular business hours (Monday-Friday 2 p.m. – 9 p.m.).

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Pageant: The Musical

Pageant: The Musical, a beauty pageant-based show featuring six contestants (all played by men in drag), opens at Circuit Playhouse this weekend.

In the show, the contestants are competing for the title of Miss Glamouresse in the categories of best swimsuit, talent, gown, and spokesmodel, and since the judges are selected from the audience, no two performances are the same.

Pageant runs March 11th through April 9th, but there will be a special preview show on Thursday, March 10th benefitting the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center’s youth services programming. 

Tickets to that fundraising performance are $45, and that includes a cocktail hour reception from 7 to 8 p.m. The show begins at 8 p.m. that night. For tickets to that performance, go here.

For ticket prices and time for the show’s regular run, check out the Playhouse on the Square website.

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MGLCC Receives Grant to Expand HIV Testing, Programs

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The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has received a $75,000 grant from the Elton John AIDS Foundation (EJAF) and the Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation to expand the center’s HIV testing and outreach efforts.

The local grant is part of $330,000 in grant funds awarded to organizations that fight HIV/AIDS across the South.

“The U.S. South is the global epicenter of the AIDS crisis – driven by discrimination, rampant economic inequality, and a lack of access to quality healthcare,” said EJAF Chairman David Furnish. “Our two foundations realize the urgency of this crisis. With these grants, we’re supporting the advocacy and action that will, once and for all, change the course of this epidemic.”

MGLCC will use the funds to launch the Memphis SYNAPSE Project, which will reach out specifically to gay, bisexual, and transgender African-Americans. That project will allow the MGLCC to begin providing at-home HIV tests for those who need them. Previously, the testing was only available at the center. The project also includes the launch of Healthy Relationships, an evidence-based intervention for HIV-positive people. The grant funds will also go toward PSAs announcing the SYNAPSE program.

MGLCC will also be able to hire two new staff members with the funding, and it will support the launch of “Bold and Beautiful,” a support group for transgender women.

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Fundraiser to Benefit LGBTQ Youth Housing Project

In December, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) announced an ambitious plan to house the city’s LGBTQ homeless youth in temporary shelters fashioned from shipping containers.

“We’re going alter the containers by adding windows and doors and making them into individual living spaces with a bedroom and a bathroom,” said MGLCC Youth Services Manager Stephanie Reyes. “And we’ll have an administration building there with a classroom, where we’ll teach classes on writing a resume, nutrition, and life skills.”

Greg Utterback, who lives out of state and has only visited MGLCC one time, gave the center the funds to purchase property in Orange Mound from the Shelby County Land Bank. The shipping containers will be set up on that land, but MGLCC is still looking for donors to fund the program, which they’ve dubbed the Metamorphosis Project.

On Sunday, February 21st, they’re having their first major fundraising event for the project. The party will be held at the Hilton Memphis (939 Ridge Lake Blvd) at 4 p.m. and will feature live music by Alex da Ponte. There will be a live auction to purchase items that will be used in the housing project. Tickets to the fundraiser are $40 for singles or $75 for couples. For more information, see the event’s Facebook page.

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LGBT Center Announces Plan To House Homeless Gay Youth

A glimpse at MGLCC’s plans for the Metamorphosis Project

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) announced Friday morning their 2016 plan to house the city’s gay, homeless youth. The Metamorphosis Project will employ refurbished shipping containers as transitional housing, and it will be the first housing project for LGBT young adults in the city.

“We’re going alter the containers by adding windows and doors and making them into individual living spaces with a bedroom and a bathroom,” said MGLCC Youth Services Manager Stephanie Reyes. “And we’ll have an administration building there with a classroom, where we’ll teach classes on writing a resume, nutrition, and life skills.”

Greg Utterback, who lives out of state and has only visited MGLCC one time, gave the center the funds to purchase property in Orange Mound from the Shelby County Land Bank. The shipping containers will be set up on that land, but MGLCC is still looking for donors to fund the program.

The plan was conceived by Reyes, who just last month spearheaded a youth homeless count to identify LGBT young adults in need of temporary housing. The MGLCC already operates a food pantry for those in need, and they briefly ran a youth foster program in 2010. 

Nationally, it’s estimated that 40 percent of homeless teens and young adults identify as LGBT. Many of them are rejected by their families, and they’re either kicked out or choose to leave their uncomfortable living situations.

In planning for the project, Reyes has combed through city and county zoning codes, researched other cities where shipping containers were used as low-cost housing, and studied youth homeless programs across the country.

Reyes said they have a goal of raising enough money for eight shipping containers, but they’d eventually like to raise enough money for more. The center will hold a fund-raiser in February, but she said the date hasn’t been set yet. 

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Gay & Lesbian Community Center Launches Homeless Youth Count

On a national scale, around 40 percent of homeless youth identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT), according to the United States Interagency Council on Homelessness.

The Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) set out last weekend to find out how many local LGBT youth are homeless. Through its first annual Youth Count, volunteers stationed across the city surveyed teens and young adults about their housing situations and their sexual orientation and gender identity.

The exact number of homeless youth identified from the point-in-time count wasn’t yet available at press time, but the MGLCC could confim that they surveyed more than 100 youth.

“This is us trying to figure out how we get our kids off the street,” said Will Batts, executive director of the MGLCC. “It’s not safe for them to be on the street. It’s not healthy. It’s not good for their long-term outcomes. To do that, we need to know how many of them are there at any one time.”

Batts said the center is working on a permanent solution to help LGBT homeless youth ages 18 to 25, but he said the center won’t announce specifics until December. He said homeless LGBT teens and young adults in Memphis who have aged out of the foster care system have few options.

“We don’t refer kids to the shelters anymore because so many kids have reported being sexually assaulted or having their things stolen. A couple kids have said they fell asleep in the shelter with their arms wrapped around their belongings and woke up with them gone,” Batts said. “There’s nothing safe about those places for young people. They’re not safe for skinny little gay kids, and they’re certainly not safe for trans kids.”

Because the shelters have a reputation as unsafe places for LGBT youth, Batts said many turn to other options, some of which may dangerous or illegal.

“Some kids will turn to couch-surfing if it’s available. But others adapt survival techniques of selling themselves to get money to eat. An 18-year-old kid should not have to do that to survive,” Batts said.

Stephanie Reyes, MGLCC’s youth services and volunteer manager, said the center started their Youth Count by surveying those who showed up at the center’s weekly Gen Q youth group for LGBT young adults on Friday. On Saturday, volunteers set up tables at various locations around town where youth might hang out — Tobey Skate Park, the Central Library, Social Suds laundromat in South Memphis, etc. — and surveyed any young people who appeared to be under the age of 25.

The survey asks questions about sexual orientation and homelessness, so some surveyed likely weren’t the target population.

“We don’t want to stigmatize the kids and say, hey, ‘You look queer, come fill this out,'” Batts said. “They just wanted anybody under 25 to fill it out, and then they’ll pull out the ones that identify as LGBT.”

Reyes says she hopes having some solid numbers will help them raise funds for the center’s goal of housing LGBT homeless youth. For now, she says when homeless youth come to the center, she can provide food, clothing, and help with resumes, but she has no options for shelter.

“There are no shelters in Memphis that advertise that they are LGBT-friendly. Most are faith-based, and I don’t know of any that are, like, ‘Bring on the trans kids,'” Reyes said. “If you have an 18-year-old who has aged out of foster care, and they come to the center and tell us they’re homeless and ask what they can do, all I can say is go to the Union Mission and don’t tell anyone that you’re gay.”

In a separate MGLCC project, Reyes is launching a survey of emergency homeless shelters to determine which would like help in becoming more LGBT-friendly.

“It may be a case where the shelter may not be against this community, but they may not know how to serve them properly or be respectful in their questions. We want to find out who has had sensitivity trainings or who has an intake form that asks your identity instead of just male and female sex,” Reyes said.

Several years ago, the MGLCC launched a foster program that paired homeless LGBT youth with volunteers willing to temporarily open their homes. But that program is no longer in place.

“Some of the kids had more serious issues than most people could deal with. There are mental health issues and legal issues,” Batts said.

He said the center’s future efforts to house homeless youth will include wraparound services for legal, medical, and mental health needs.

“We make up less than 10 percent of the population, but up to 40 percent of homeless kids identify as LGBT. I saw a report today that said 40 percent of girls in juvenile detention facilities identify as LGBT,” Batts said. “Our community is overrepresented in homelessness and incarceration and abuse. But it’s not because we’re bad people. It’s because there’s a society that has told us that we are bad and disordered, and that wears on people. It creates a really unhealthy environment for young people.”

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Emergency Planning Meeting Called To Address Transgender Homelessness and Unemployment

Homeless Organizing for Power and Equality (H.O.P.E.) is turning its attention to the issue of homelessness and unemployment among transgender Memphians.

The group will host a “state of emergency” planning meeting on Thursday, August 27th at 7 p.m. at the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) to discuss solutions addressing the lack of resources for trans people.

Currently, most (or all) Memphis homeless shelters will not allow trans patrons unless those patrons agree to present as their gender assigned at birth. And it’s difficult for transgender people to find employment. These issues overwhelming effect trans people of color.

For more information on the meeting or to RSVP, see the event’s Facebook page.


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Couples Tie the Knot at Tennessee Equality Project Marriage Celebration

“It’s my pleasure to introduce you to Mrs. and Mrs. Wallheimer,” said attorney (and former Shelby County Commissioner) Steve Mulroy, as a couple hundred people gathered on the lawn of the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) Friday afternoon cheered and clapped. Mulroy was referring to Jennifer and Alisha Wallheimer (formerly Jennifer Ballheimer and Alisha Wall), who married today on the front porch of the MGLCC.

Steve Mulroy performs a marriage for Jennifer and Alisha Wallheimer.

Mulroy was one of several volunteers with marriage-ordaining powers at the MGLCC’s celebration of the U.S. Supreme Court’s 5-4 decision in favor of same-sex marriage in all 50 states. He and others married two other couples on-site in front of the gathered crowd. Before the ceremony, ministers roamed the crowd looking for anyone ready to marry.

“We actually had more ministers come out to perform weddings than we had people looking to get married,” said Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Shelby County Committee Chair Justin Smith.

Shelby County Commissioner Reginald Milton spoke at the event. He told a story about having to go to a segregated medical clinic when he was a kid followed by the words “An injustice to anyone is an injustice to all.”

“I was too young to know the Civil Rights Movement, but I am honored to be here today as we stand for justice for every human being in this country,” Milton said.

While the event was celebratory, TEP President and Chair Ginger Leonard cautioned that, once the celebrations were over, the community still had lots of work ahead.

“Just because we can get married doesn’t mean we are no longer going to be discriminated against in housing, jobs, getting loans from banks, or in other areas,” Leonard said.

She said TEP will begin to shift its focus on non-discrimination ordinances with specific language addressing sexual orientation and gender identity, anti-bullying legislation, housing for LGBT homeless youth, and LGBT senior care.

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