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Greg Cravens

About Bianca Phillips’ post, “OUTMemphis is New Name for MGLCC” …

Please don’t change it again. These tattoo do-overs are both time consuming and painful.

Long Duck Dong

About Bryce Ashby and Michael LaRosa’s Viewpoint, “The Seismic Shift in Voting Demographics” …

To a substantial degree, individuals are products of their race/ethnicity. It is no accident that lions live and move in prides, wolves in packs, birds in flocks, and insects in swarms. Humans, of course, are more advanced and are capable of free thinking and free action independent and apart from their group — at least sometimes. However, for the most part, individuals behave in line with the rest of their respective group, their respective racial/ethnic identity. It is so much easier and more pleasant to be a conformist than an outcast or misfit.

On top of this, all humans share in common certain traits and flaws like greed, lust, jealousy, and ambition. Mix lots of individuals of various races/ethnicities together (especially in badly lop-sided numbers with disparate levels of power/influence) with universal human flaws, and you get division, oppression, persecution, subjugation, suffering, and tyranny followed by their most famous love child — violence/war/ethnic cleansing.

However, all or most of the oppressors started out as a Joe or a Juan or the son of a historically oppressed/persecuted Joe or Juan. And then one day, young and strong Joe or Juan, full of anger and resentment, decided that enough was enough and decided to do something about that old oppressor. Unfortunately, in the process, Joe or Juan usually becomes the new oppressor.

WilliamJClinton

Were SuperTrump to build a mega wall and carry the millions of illegals back to their far-flung homes on his mighty shoulders, our economy would either fail or be forced into drastic redistribution of wealth. Trump is obviously part of Putin’s fifth column. As are his many commie-trained wives and ex-wives.

CL Mullins

It’s entirely possible for folks to be in disagreement about the politics of immigration, have serious discussions about immigration policy as articulated by one political party or another, and still do all of this without injecting race into your argument at all.

You have to feel sad for people like Bill who can’t seem to grasp this simple idea.

OakTree

Billy, strutting alone around the wrestling ring, blowing kisses at the empty seats.

Jeff

Every great society needs a peasant class. And if we can’t import one, we must make one.

Ern

About Trump and Reagan …

Republicans have been comparing Donald Trump with Ronald Reagan. By no stretch of the imagination could Trump ever be considered comparable to Reagan, except maybe in their celebrity status. Reagan is considered the patron saint of all true conservatives, but the GOP has moved so far to the right since Reagan’s presidency that today he wouldn’t be allowed on the same stage as the typical GOP candidate.

The real Reagan — not the mythic one revered by Republicans today — granted amnesty to nearly three million illegal immigrants, vastly increased the size of the federal government, raised taxes four times, and nearly tripled the national debt. On abortion, Reagan “mouthed the pro-life line” as president, but as governor of California, he signed a legalization bill that enabled abortions in the state to rise from 500 a year to nearly a million. Having been shot himself, he advocated sensible firearms legislation — supporting both the Brady Bill and an assault weapons ban. By today’s Republican standards, Reagan was a heretic. 

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Memphis Gaydar News

OUTMemphis is New Name for MGLCC

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has changed its name to OUTMemphis in an effort to be more inclusive of the entire gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer community.

OUTMemphis was established as the MGLCC more than 27 years ago, and although the center has served the entire community through its programs, the original name didn’t include a mention of the bi, trans, and queer communities that may not identify as gay or lesbian. The center began considering a name change eight years ago as it began adding paid staff and expanding its services.

“Changing our name reflects our efforts to be more responsive to and inclusive of all LGBTQ people in Memphis and the surrounding areas,” says Will Batts, OUTMemphis Executive Director, in a press release. “Our new name mirrors the change this organization began eight years ago. It honors the diversity of our board, our staff, our volunteers, our visitors, and our services.”

OUTMemphis’ programs range from support networks, social activities (like potlucks), HIV testing, and workshops to educate the wider public about LGBTQ issues. OUTMemphis is also working to launch a project that will house homeless LGBTQ teens.

Here’s a statement from OUTMemphis’ press release on the name change:

We have known for a while that our name did not reflect our full identity — as individuals, as an agency, or as a community. So we set about to change it. No combination of letters describing our individual identities could do full justice to our diversity; no acronym would encompass every way in which we define and describe ourselves. So rather than focus primarily on our individual identities, we chose a name that would express our vision, our mission, our hopes, and our dreams of a living in a world that respects all LGBTQ people. Thus we have become OUTMemphis: The LGBTQ Center for the Mid-South.

Regardless of how we identify as individuals, we all seek a world where we can live openly, honestly and authentically. We desire a community that celebrates and respects us fully as parts of the whole. A community that respects US, and not a caricature or incomplete identity we put on simply to live in peace. We each deserve to live as openly as WE choose to be. We expect the freedom to be open about who we are and about whom we love. We deserve to be OUT, as OUT as we choose to be. Working to make that vision a reality is what we do every day at — in dozens of ways, in hundreds of settings, and for thousands of clients and allies each year.

Just as our new name highlights our vision of a better world, our new image reflects our mission. The rainbow illustrates the diversity, passion, and POWER of our people, interlocked and CONNECTED through a central hub, working to EDUCATE ourselves and others about the LGBTQ experience, and turning that knowledge into ADVOCACY that demands equality and safety for all of us wherever we are. We do not imagine ourselves the only place where this happens. However, as the only center like us for several hundred miles in every direction, we have a special responsibility to serve as many people as we can, as best as we can, and in as many ways as we can.

Our movement — the LGBTQ struggle for full equality and inclusion — has made too many advances to accept retreat. We understand that not every person can be out and fully honest. We know that right now we live in a world where the costs of being out can be too high to bear for some people. As an agency and as a movement, even with that understanding, we can no longer accept being silent, being hidden, or being in the closet. Someday in the future, there may be no need for coming out, because there is no “in.” Until that day, we will continue to fight, to educate, to support, and to stand proud. Open, authentic, and OUT.

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OutBid Celebrates First Anniversary of Marriage Equality

Marriage equality became the law of the land on June 26, 2015 after the momentous Obergefell v. Hodges U.S. Supreme Court decision. The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) will commemorate the first anniversary of marriage equality in its annual Outbid auction.

Themed “Paper & Pansies: A Celebration of the First Anniversary of Marriage Equality,” the auction to benefit MGLCC will take place on Saturday, June 25th at the Clark Opera Memphis Center at 6:30 p.m.

Paper is the traditional first anniversary gift, symbolizing the strength that comes from the interlaced connection of the paper’s individual threads. And an alternate tradition recommends pansies, which symbolize thought or remembrance.

The auction event will also feature live music and comedy, as well as food and libations. Tickets are $50 for a single, $90 for a double, and $350 for a table of eight. To purchase tickets, go here.

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MGLCC Conducts LGBTQ Census

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has launched a census project to help them get a more accurate picture of the LGBTQ community. 

The anonymous survey asks questions about sexual orientation, gender identity, how comfortable a person is being “out” to family, co-workers, faith communities, etc. It also surveys participants on what LGBTQ issues are most important to the Mid-South community (i.e. making Memphis safer for trans people, preventing school bullying of LGBTQ students, housing LGBTQ homeless youth, etc.).

The survey will be available through April 8th online. Those who would rather fill out a paper copy may do so at MGLCC (892 S. Cooper) during regular business hours (Monday-Friday 2 p.m. – 9 p.m.).

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LGBT Center Announces Plan To House Homeless Gay Youth

A glimpse at MGLCC’s plans for the Metamorphosis Project

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) announced Friday morning their 2016 plan to house the city’s gay, homeless youth. The Metamorphosis Project will employ refurbished shipping containers as transitional housing, and it will be the first housing project for LGBT young adults in the city.

“We’re going alter the containers by adding windows and doors and making them into individual living spaces with a bedroom and a bathroom,” said MGLCC Youth Services Manager Stephanie Reyes. “And we’ll have an administration building there with a classroom, where we’ll teach classes on writing a resume, nutrition, and life skills.”

Greg Utterback, who lives out of state and has only visited MGLCC one time, gave the center the funds to purchase property in Orange Mound from the Shelby County Land Bank. The shipping containers will be set up on that land, but MGLCC is still looking for donors to fund the program.

The plan was conceived by Reyes, who just last month spearheaded a youth homeless count to identify LGBT young adults in need of temporary housing. The MGLCC already operates a food pantry for those in need, and they briefly ran a youth foster program in 2010. 

Nationally, it’s estimated that 40 percent of homeless teens and young adults identify as LGBT. Many of them are rejected by their families, and they’re either kicked out or choose to leave their uncomfortable living situations.

In planning for the project, Reyes has combed through city and county zoning codes, researched other cities where shipping containers were used as low-cost housing, and studied youth homeless programs across the country.

Reyes said they have a goal of raising enough money for eight shipping containers, but they’d eventually like to raise enough money for more. The center will hold a fund-raiser in February, but she said the date hasn’t been set yet. 

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Gay-Straight Alliance Mixer

GenQ, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center’s (MGLCC) group for college-age LGBT young adults and their straight allies, will begin hosting a series of mixers for students from local Gay-Straight Alliances (GSAs). 

Many colleges have LGBT/straight ally social clubs, and the GSA mixers are designed to help members of various GSAs meet and socialize over snacks.

The GSA mixers will be held on the third Friday of each month at the MGLCC (892 S. Cooper), and the first one will be held on Friday, March 20th.

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Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center Celebrates 25 Years

On Saturday, December 13th, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) will host a cocktail party celebrating its 25th anniversary. 

The party runs from 8 to 11 p.m. There will be food and drink, as well as a special presentation on the center’s history at 9 p.m. The event is sponsored by RockCares: The Norris-Rocaberte Family Foundation, and although admission is free, donations to keep the center going are encouraged.

From the MGLCC’s announcement:
“So much has changed in our lives and in our culture since 1989. MGLCC has played a significant role in helping bring about that positive change in the Mid-South region. We want to take a moment to honor that service and to be grateful for the lives we have impacted just by offering a refuge to our community. … We remind folks all the time that we are older than the average LGBT community center in the country and STILL one of very few in the South! So let’s enjoy some food and drink, reminisce about the old days, celebrate our triumphs and remember our losses, and take just one night to congratulate each other for making MGLCC such a special place.”