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Race and Sexuality In Sports Aren’t New — But Change Is Coming.

I felt like I was at the first crossroads of my life as I knocked on the office door of Fulton (Missouri) High School head basketball Coach Ken Quest. I’d just received the news I’d made the school’s debate team. However, the debate team schedule was in direct conflict with basketball practices and games. As a sophomore point guard, I was eligible to play varsity ball.

To me, it was an agonizing decision. I just knew Coach Quest would feel my pain and would set about to work something out. He was totally silent as I explained my dilemma. Then he leaned forward and said, “Smitty, you probably got a real future in that debate stuff, because you sure don’t have one playing basketball. So long, and turn in your jersey!” At least I could say it was an honest reflection of what the man really felt.

The need to be honest with one’s feelings and the ramifications that come with it have invaded the world of professional sports within the past few weeks. In the cliché-ridden, over-hyped, closed-fraternity, big-money industry sports has become, the intrusion of societal issues such as racism and homosexuality can result in seismic reactions among those who play the games and those who vicariously follow the action. But it’s all part of a generations-long cleansing process of bigotry and prejudice that this nation is still undergoing.

A check of history reveals the racial rants captured by defamed former Los Angeles Clippers owner Donald Sterling are by no means the first time crude and archaic statements have been uttered by sports executives and personalities. The “Hall of Shame” in that regard has a number of infamous entries. Remember former Los Angeles Dodger General Manager Al Campanis on a 1987 edition of Nightline? Goaded by host Ted Koppel into an offhand remark, a live audience was aghast when the earnest 70-year-old said blacks didn’t have the “necessities” to be baseball managers or executives. He was fired two days later. A year after that, CBS sports analyst Jimmy “The Greek” Snyder joined Campanis in the unemployment line — fired for his statement that “blacks were bred through slavery to be better athletes.”

You don’t have to dial too far back to dredge up golfer Fuzzy Zoeller’s racist joke about Masters winner Tiger Woods serving fried chicken at the champions’ dinner. Radio shock-jock Don Imus’ feeble attempt at sports humor ended in an Al Sharpton intervention after Imus called the Rutgers women’s basketball team a bunch of “nappy-headed ho’s.”

The public purgatory these stupid men had to endure was self-inflicted and, except for the near-senile Campanis, well deserved.

Homosexuality in sports has been much more closeted. The late-round selection of openly gay University of Missouri football player Michael Sam has provided us with one memorable video clip of him and his significant other embracing and kissing after he received the draft call from the St. Louis Rams. When Sam made his sexual identity public in February, he was immediately congratulated for doing so by former NFL running back Dave Kopay.

In a 1975 Sports Illustrated cover article, published three years after his retirement, Kopay revealed he’d had an affair with another player who later died of AIDS. In a letter to Sam, Kopay advised him as to what lies ahead: “You need to bring it like you never have brought it before.”

Sam would be smart to heed Kopay’s words. There will be the initial media frenzy. There will be one news conference where he answers all their prying questions. Then the furor will die down, and he becomes a person simply trying to stay employed. We should respect his efforts.

It’s all the reflection of a society in flux. Dinosaurs like Donald Sterling still roam the earth, mired in their own ethical morass. They know their numbers are decreasing. They fear a world where intellect stares bigotry and prejudice in the face and doesn’t blink. They’re scared the good-ole-boy system of race-based locker-room myths will no longer apply to real life. They should be afraid of extinction. Yet, sometimes I still wonder if all those many years ago, Coach Quest was too hasty in accepting my jersey.

Nah — for in life as in sports, “You gotta bring it!”

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Dalai Lama

So this is all really, really random and probably won’t make a bit of sense because I am just having one of those weeks, and nothing going through that frightening place that is my mind seems to be connecting in any way. So. I say, really? China actually threatened the United States that it would retaliate in some way if President Obama met with the Dalai Lama, which he did last Friday. Don’t they have anything better to do? He seems like such a nice, cuddly guy and is always smiling. The government of China is really that pissed off about this? I wonder if my friend and city Councilman Myron Lowery is still hearing from them about the time Dalai visited Memphis to be honored by the National Civil Rights Museum, and he fist-bumped and exclaimed, “Hello, Dalai!” That is still one of my favorite stories and will always gain Lowery my vote. And when Obama met with the Dalai, it made a huge difference to meet with him in the White House Map Room as opposed to the Oval Office. What is up with people?

My favorite part of the “Turn Away the Gays” bill first presented by Republican state Senator Brian Kelsey of Germantown, who took his name off the bill once everyone pointed out how idiotic is was, is that it was geared toward same-sex couples. But no one ever made mention of how the couples would be identified if they, say, for some inexplicable reason, waltzed into a Cracker Barrel for lunch or dinner. Would they be screened like passengers at the airport? Have the irises in their eyes scanned like foreigners coming into the United States? Would the hostess have to ask all people, “Y’all ain’t gay, are you?”

None of this bill ever made any sense at all. And poor guy; I bet he wishes he had never even mentioned it. I’ll actually give the guy credit where credit it due. There is another bill he is sponsoring, and from what I can tell it comes up for a vote (or however they work those things) this week: It’s bill SBO276, and this is how it reads on Kelsey’s website: “Criminal Procedure – As introduced, authorizes court restoring a person’s rights of citizenship following conviction for a crime to also grant a certificate of employment restoration; prohibits a licensing entity from denying license application based solely upon applicant’s past criminal record if person has been issued a certificate of employment restoration; provides certain immunity to employers who hire a person who has been issued a certificate of employment restoration.”

Okay, correct me if I’m wrong (imagine that), but it looks like Kelsey is trying to help out convicted felons once they have paid their debt to society and see that they are not discriminated against in the job market, which is one of the main reasons for inmate recidivism and is just not fair. So I think that’s a good thing. But I can’t figure out why Kelsey’s trying to help out convicted felons while trying to take away the civil rights of people who haven’t committed any crimes, just because they were born homosexual. What is up with people?

All I know is that if Kelly English’s offer still stands to host a fund-raiser for anyone who will run against Kelsey in the next election and that fund-raiser is going to be at English’s Restaurant Iris, I might be the first to throw my name on the ballot. Man, that place has some good eats. And speaking of “the gays” and chain restaurants, one of the best stories to come out, pun intended, in many months was the one about Michael Sam, the University of Missouri college football star, who, well, came out and would be the first openly gay football player in the NFL, if he is drafted. Apparently, he had come out to his teammates some time back but told his father via text message only shortly before going national with it. His father’s reaction: He told the press he was at Denny’s eating dinner and was so upset he had to leave and go to Applebee’s to have some drinks!

OMG, no one could have made that up. I wonder if he was going to have to top all that off with some cream cheese-canned fruit-whipped cream-and-gummy bear pancakes at IHOP. Had to leave dinner at Denny’s to hit the cocktail lounge at Applebee’s because his son told him he was gay. What is up with people?

And finally, the Sochi Olympics. Finally, as in finally they are over. They’ve been over less than 24 hours as I write this and already the mainstream media are scouring Rio de Janeiro trying to drum up ratings for the next round of Olympics that are to be held there in 2016. Ugh. Summer Olympics and a presidential race. I think I’m going to have to reserve my seat at Applebee’s now. Come on, Mr. Sam. I’ll meet you there.

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SEC Defensive Player of the Year Comes Out as Gay

I’m a graduate of the University of Missouri and I’m proud of this guy, Michael Sam.

A Mizzou defensive end, Sam was an All-American last season and was named as the SEC Defensive Player of the Year, leading the Tigers to a 12-2 record. Sunday, he came out to the national media as a gay man. As this New York Times story and accompanying video make clear, he’d already come out to his teammates, who seemingly had no problem with the information. He revealed his truth to the national media in order to “own his story.”

I believe this revelation will be looked back upon as a Jackie Robinson-type moment in the history of gay rights. It took real courage to do what this young man has done. Michael Sam has stones, big ones. Respect.