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Cocktails for Equality

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Chef Kelly English is hosting a cocktail party at Restaurant Iris to raise money for the Tennessee Equality Project’s Political Action Committee on Sunday, May 18th from 5 to 7 p.m.

English will prepare hors d’oeuvres, and the bartenders will create special cocktails for the event. Funds raised will go to help TEP support candidates who support LGBT equality and safe school legislation to prevent bullying of LGBT students.

Tickets are $50 per person or $90 per couple and may be purchased at the door.

Kelly has been an outspoken supporter of LGBT equality. He’s also headlining at the Big Gay Mississippi Welcome Table Dinner in New York City on June 13th, along with chefs John Currence of Oxford’s City Grocery and Art Smith, who owns restaurants from Chicago to Atlanta. The chefs are joining forces to oppose Mississippi’s version of the “Turn the Gays Away” bill, which would enable businesses and individuals to refuse services to LGBT citizens on the grounds of religious freedom. Read more about that dinner on Hungry Memphis.

A similar bill was killed in committee in Tennessee earlier this year. Senator Brian Kelsey introduced the bill (and later withdrew his sponsorship), and at the time, English made headlines when he put a message on Facebook offering to host a fund-raiser dinner for anyone who would run against Kelsey in the next election.

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Redirecting the Mainstream

It is not to be doubted any longer. The massive success of the Tennessee Equality Project’s (TEP) “gumbo contest” fund-raiser, held Sunday evening at Bridges downtown, was one more indication that in Memphis as elsewhere, the LGBT (Lesbian-Gay-Bisexual-Transgender) community has achieved mainstream status.

Much of this is the result of the organizing efforts and skills of Memphian Jonathan Cole, the nonprofit TEP’s chair and president. Much, too, is due to the fact that in recent years the gay rights movement would seem to have made the quantum leap from merely seeking tolerance to establishing itself as an influential force. At least in the Western world, LGBT has achieved a status close to what the late former President Warren G. Harding meant to denote by his coinage of the term “normalcy.”

That was made obvious in the crowds that made the TEP event one of the most well-attended public events of the new year. And it was made especially clear by the number of politicians working the arena-sized meeting room at Bridges.

Most of these were Democrats, but there were Republicans as well, and judicial incumbents and candidates, whose formal status is nonpartisan. The TEP’s endorsement is a sought-after commodity these days, particularly in this year’s Democratic primary contests. Beyond that, well, there are votes to be had.

• One of the attendees at the TEP affair, as at most public political gatherings these days, except explicitly Republican ones or events on behalf of his ballot rivals, was Mike McCusker, a candidate in the Democratic primary for Criminal Court clerk.

This is the second attempt for the office by McCusker, a retired Army major who served in Afghanistan as combat advisor to the Afghan National Army and has been serving as an assistant district attorney general for the last several years. When he tried to file in the Democratic primary four years ago, he was denied the right to do so by a vote of the Shelby County Democratic executive committee.

The reason? After 9/11 prompted his Army service, McCusker — raised in “an Irish-Catholic Democratic family”— had what he describes as “a brief period” of voting Republican, more or less from what he saw then as support for the policy of his Commander-in-Chief. Once he returned from Afghanistan, he reevaluated his politics and, as he says, “returned to my Democratic values.”

After he was denied a petition in 2010 to run as a Democrat, McCusker says, local Republicans tried to get him to run for the same office under the GOP label, but he declined. “That wasn’t who I was.”

The current Republican incumbent, Kevin Key, eventually won the race.

McCusker has some stout opposition in the Democratic primary. Other candidates are City Councilmember Wanda Halbert, City Court Clerk Thomas Long, and Rev. Ralph White.

Key did not file for reelecton, so it’s an open seat. The sole Republican candidate and de facto GOP nominee is Richard DeSaussure II, who has served as chief administrator in the clerk’s office.

• Among the busiest local politicians last week — not unexpectedly — was Shelby County Commissioner Steve Mulroy, who is one of four Democrats seeking the nomination for Shelby County mayor to oppose incumbent Republican Mayor Mark Luttrell. (Luttrell, too, is a de facto nominee, having only the eccentric perennial candidate Ernest Lunati to worry about in the Republican primary.)

Among other things, in the past week, Mulroy has had two fund-raisers, attended every public non-GOP event in sight (political or otherwise), attended and played a major role in two meetings of the county commission, and continued his support of locked-out workers at the local Kellogg plant, to the point of camping overnight outside the plant, along with City Councilman Lee Harris, a fellow lockout opponent.

He also lent paternal aid and support to his son Quinn Mulroy, a White Station High School student whose team earned the right last week in a local mock trial tournament to to go to next month’s state finals.

Mulroy also continued, through the public fund-raisers and other means, to raise money for his campaign — somewhere in the neighborhood of $70,000 as of the weekend, he reports. A previous report for the filing period ending January 31st had him at $55,000, and this week he challenged the other three Democratic contenders — former County Commissioner Deidre Malone, Commission Chairman James Harvey, and Rev. Kenneth Whalum — to make public their most recent fund-raising information.

Mulroy telling his “Stop Thief” story at a fund-raiser at Mulan in the Cooper-Young district.

And, speaking of funds: Mulroy earned YouTube notoriety two years ago when, in the midst of an interview by WMC-TV’s Kontji Anthony in Overton Park, the commissioner was interrupted by a down-and-out panhandler, who persistently demanded two dollars and concluded his impromptu conversation with a threat: “If you don’t have two dollars tomorrow, I’m going to kick your ass!”

That sad story had something of a happy ending. The panhandler, tracked down by another Action News 5 reporter later on, was contrite and apologized.

But the two dollar figure seems to be some innate leitmotif in the Mulroy saga. The commissioner was parking his car in a Second Street garage last Thursday when he was approached by a man whom he took to be an attendant asking him for a $10 parking fee. Mulroy fished a twenty out of his wallet and handed it to the man, expecting change.

Instead, the “attendant” took off running, and Mulroy, realizing he’d been had, got out of the car and ran after him. (The commissioner is a regular runner and has almost regained the competitive racing level he maintained before donating a kidney last spring.)

The chase went in and out of alleys and ended up on Main Street, where Mulroy and three helpers — restaurant workers along the way, who happened to see what was going on and joined in — cornered the thief and, after convincing him that his escape route was blocked, persuaded him to return Mulroy’s money.

He eventually did, but only after first making the claim that the twenty had somehow gone missing and offering Mulroy — wait for it — two dollars, which he handed over. After the thief finally gave up and returned the twenty, he had a sudden thought and gave voice to it: “Hey, give me my two dollars!”

This story, too, had a happy ending. Everybody was reunited with his original money.

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TEP Gumbo Contest

On Sunday, February 23rd, 16 teams will pit their gumbo recipes against one another in Tennessee Equality Project’s fourth annual Mardi Gras Party and Gumbo Contest.

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They’ll be vying for both the People’s Choice Award (voted on by attendees) and the Judges’ Choice Award (judged by a panel of made up of Memphis Police officer Virginia Awkward, Chef Kelly English of Restaurant Iris, Memphis City Councilman Edmund Ford Jr., former State Senator Beverly Kay Marrero, and Chef Gary Williams of DeJavu Restaurant). A $25 ticket allows patrons to sample and vote for their favorite gumbo. High Cotton Brewing Company and Yazoo Brewing Company will provide craft brew for sale, and the Mighty Souls Brass Band will play New Orleans jazz.

Pat McCooter, Queen of Mystic Krewe of Pegasus Memphis, will act as Mistress of Ceremonies.

Call 901-301-3306 or visit http://tepgumbocontest.blogspot.com/ for tickets.

Full disclosure: I’ll be competing in the gumbo contest this year.

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LGBT Booths at Cooper-Young Festival

The annual Cooper-Young Festival is set for Saturday, September 14th, and as usual, there will be plenty of opportunities to learn more about local LGBT advocacy and pride groups.

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As always, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center will be educating the public about their programs, which range from placing homeless LGBT teens into supportive homes and food pantry services to support groups and social potlucks. The MGLCC booth will be set up near the community center at 892 S. Cooper.

The Tennessee Equality Project will be registering voters and raising awareness about statewide LGBT legislation and equality efforts at their booth. They will be set up near Java Cabana on the north side of Young.

Mid-South Pride will be promoting the 10th annual pride parade and celebration, which is set for October 12th on Beale Street downtown. They’ll also be signing up volunteers for the event and promoting other fund-raising events between now and pride weekend.

There will be a Mid-South Pride after-party at Club Spectrum beginning at 10 p.m.

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Ice Cream Social with TEP

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The Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) will hold its annual Ice Cream Social on Sunday, July 21st at 2 p.m. at Neshoba Church.

TEP’s acting executive director Chris Sanders of Nashville will be at the event on part of his Tennessee tour in support of his new role with the organization (Sander led the organization as president for years).

The event will feature an ice cream bar with multiple toppings and an appearance by Magic Mr. Nick. The entry fee is $10 per person or $25 per family. All proceeds benefit TEP.

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TEP To Discuss the Meaning of Supreme Court’s Historic Ruling

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In a historic decision for marriage equality, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and decided that the supporters of California’s Prop 8 gay marriage ban did not have standing to appeal the U.S. District Court’s ruling of unconstitutionality.

In a nutshell, the DOMA decision means that married gay couples in the 13 states that allow gay marriage will now be entitled to federal marriage benefits, and the Prop 8 decision makes gay marriage legal again in California. The Prop 8 decision does not, however, undo any gay marriage bans in the 36 states that have them, including Tennessee. The court would have had to rule Prop 8 to be unconstitutional for that to have happened.

Michelle Bliss of the Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) will break the decisions down further tonight in a lecture (and likely a celebration) at TEP’s monthly meeting tonight at the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center at 6:30 p.m.

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LGBT Activism in the Deep South

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LGBT activism is alive and well in the South, but what special issues come along with preaching equality in the Bible Belt?

Jonathan Cole of the Tennessee Equality Project will discuss “LGBT Activism in the Deep South” in front of the Marxist Student Union on the University of Memphis campus. The lecture is open to the public on Thursday, March 28th at 7 p.m. in the Mitchell Hall Auditorium on the University of Memphis campus.

The event is co-sponsored by the Progressive Student Alliance.

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Advancing Equality on the Hill

For nine consecutive years, the Tennessee Equality Project has dedicated a day to lobbying state lawmakers in favor of bills that advance equality and against bills that take away equal rights or promote discrimination.

On Tuesday, March 12th, the Shelby County Committee will be joining other TEP committees from across the state in Nashville for Advancing Equality on the Hill Day.

The event begins with a light breakfast and policy briefing at the Rhymer Gallery in downtown Nashville at 8:30 a.m. At 9:30 a.m., the group will head to Legislative Plaza for individual appointments with lawmakers.

There’s also a TEP Foundation and Clergy for Justice anti-bullying prayer breakfast from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. in the Legislative Plaza cafeteria. Clergy and other guests will hear presentations on school bullying issues to help them advocate for safe schools in Tennessee.

TEP will hold a press conference at 1 p.m. at the top of the escalator in Legislative Plaza to discuss important legislation and to make public the Tennessee Human Rights Statement, which provides a contrast to discriminatory legislation filed this session.

For more information, see the event’s Facebook page.

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Q&A with Kal Dwight

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Memphian Kal Dwight is easily one of the most active young people involved in the local fight for LGBTQ rights. At age 21, he’s already a veteran of the equality movement, having co-founded the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center’s Gen Q group for college-aged LGBTQ people and their allies. Gen Q offers a place for young people to socialize and get active in the fight for equality.

On March 12th, Gen Q members will be in Nashville taking part in the Tennessee Equality Project’s “Advancing Equality Day on the Hill,” an annual day of lobbying in favor of LGBTQ-friendly bills and lobbying against those bills that would harm gay people and families. Kal took a few minutes to chat with the Flyer about Gen Q, activism, and his undying love for Elton John.

Flyer: Why did you help start Gen Q?
Kal Dwight: Originally, when my best bro Ray and I started it, we were 19 and too young for the bars. This was before Spectrum (gasp!). But we knew we wanted to be involved. We also knew that there were others like us. There isn’t much to do in Memphis if you’re under 21, whether you’re gay or straight. If you’re not in college or a church youth group, it’s hard to go out and meet people. So we started in early 2010 at the MGLCC.

What’s the goal of the organization?
To create a healthier, safer environment for young adults while strengthening the local gay-straight alliances (GSA). We meet every Friday, and we reserve the second Friday of every month specifically for college GSAs to come and create events together.

You’re currently fundraising to take Gen Q to Nashville for “Advancing Equality on the Hill Day.” Why take the group?

Memphis young LGBTQA people rarely get a chance to go to Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) events in Nashville because of the cost and distance. Every year that I have been, it has been all Middle Tennessee kids and other adults. It’s time for our presence. I also hate being the youngest person at every event, so I’ve made it my mission to target young adults to get more involved. I can’t honestly keep bitching about it unless I do something. As for our fundraising goal, I think we’ve almost reached it. People keep donating every day.

Are there any particular bills in the state legislature that you’re very concerned about?
I am always concerned with the “Don’t Say Gay” bill [Senator Stacey Campfield’s bill that would ban discussion of homosexuality in grades K through 8]. I can’t wait to be rid of that one for good. Not only is it a threat to our kids, it makes us look so bad in Tennessee!

You’re probably the most active young person in the LGBTQ equality movement in Memphis.

Haha … I am older than Justin Bieber at least! I might be the youngest but not for long.

When did you first get involved in the LGBTQ equality fight in Memphis?

When I moved home from L.A. and decided that this is where I needed to be, specifically for activism. I was all fired up after Prop 8. I knew that I couldn’t represent anything I didn’t know, and all I know is the Delta. I remember my first trip to the Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center. I was glad to find a place that I now consider home.

Younger people tend to be more accepting of equality, but are there any issues that you face trying to convince the younger generation to get involved? Is there a lot of apathy?
A lot of the younger people that want to be involved are also involved in a million things. I only see the younger ones who come to me asking for projects to work on. I know that a lot have families and have to sacrifice free time to make a living. However, when my dad was in college, they were demonstrating and picketing everything. They were organizing sit-ins and bus boycotts. Okay, maybe dad isn’t that old but you get the point. We are the future, and this country isn’t going to get better until we MAKE it better.

As a transgender guy in Memphis, have you ever faced discrimination?
I’m very privileged to live in my little gay bubble; I have a very strong support system. It is certainly not a walk in the park for everyone though. Memphis is so far behind on trans issues. We are barely scraping the surface of what other places have already accomplished. Physically and mentally, this is a rough place for anyone who is LGBTQA. My biggest problems often come from within my own community. L’s, g’s, and b’s maybe don’t realize how uneducated they are and how much it hurts. My friend and a trans woman said, “Sometimes it seems that, by being trans, it is assumed that you are an open book or a walking educational seminar.” And I can get impatient.

How do you handle those situations?
I am pretty easygoing with the pronoun problem (people calling me “she” instead of “he”) but if I sense the situation could escalate, I just leave. I don’t have time to deal with jerks these days.

And now for some lighter questions: What’s your favorite Memphis restaurant?
Huey’s

So you’re pretty much the world’s biggest Elton John fan. When did that obsession begin, and how many times have you seen him perform live?

OMG elton!! He’s the man of my dreams! I first saw him when I was 13. I have seen him four times since then. And once in London! I think that he and David Furnish (his hubby) are so amazing and I’m so happy that they finally have a family. And yes, I will be seeing him next weekend.

What are you reading right now?
This month’s Rolling Stone. I am about to start [Pete] Townshend’s biography.

If you could be a celebrity for a day, who would you be?

Prince Harry. My dad even agrees.

And what are your future plans? Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
This is the hardest question. I want to be here, but I don’t think I will be. I want to do event coordinating and planning for nonprofits. I hope to be contracted out one day to the big organizations like in D.C. and L.A. But this is only March. It will probably be a different story next month..

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Vegan Dinner to Benefit GenQ

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GenQ, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center group for college-aged LGBT people and their straight allies, is hosting “Dinner for the Hill” on Friday, Feb. 15th at MGLCC (892 S. Cooper) from 7 to 9 p.m.

The Mom Corps will be cooking recipes from my cookbook, Cookin’ Crunk: Eatin’ Vegan in the Dirty South. Donations will be collected at the door to help GenQ pay for an upcoming trip to Nashville where they’ll be participating in the Tennessee Equality Project’s “Advancing Equality on the Hill” Day.

During “Advancing Equality on the Hill,” equality advocates meet with elected officials to discuss concerns and voice support for LGBT-friendly legislation.