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OUTMemphis is New Name for MGLCC

The Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) has changed its name to OUTMemphis in an effort to be more inclusive of the entire gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer community.

OUTMemphis was established as the MGLCC more than 27 years ago, and although the center has served the entire community through its programs, the original name didn’t include a mention of the bi, trans, and queer communities that may not identify as gay or lesbian. The center began considering a name change eight years ago as it began adding paid staff and expanding its services.

“Changing our name reflects our efforts to be more responsive to and inclusive of all LGBTQ people in Memphis and the surrounding areas,” says Will Batts, OUTMemphis Executive Director, in a press release. “Our new name mirrors the change this organization began eight years ago. It honors the diversity of our board, our staff, our volunteers, our visitors, and our services.”

OUTMemphis’ programs range from support networks, social activities (like potlucks), HIV testing, and workshops to educate the wider public about LGBTQ issues. OUTMemphis is also working to launch a project that will house homeless LGBTQ teens.

Here’s a statement from OUTMemphis’ press release on the name change:

We have known for a while that our name did not reflect our full identity — as individuals, as an agency, or as a community. So we set about to change it. No combination of letters describing our individual identities could do full justice to our diversity; no acronym would encompass every way in which we define and describe ourselves. So rather than focus primarily on our individual identities, we chose a name that would express our vision, our mission, our hopes, and our dreams of a living in a world that respects all LGBTQ people. Thus we have become OUTMemphis: The LGBTQ Center for the Mid-South.

Regardless of how we identify as individuals, we all seek a world where we can live openly, honestly and authentically. We desire a community that celebrates and respects us fully as parts of the whole. A community that respects US, and not a caricature or incomplete identity we put on simply to live in peace. We each deserve to live as openly as WE choose to be. We expect the freedom to be open about who we are and about whom we love. We deserve to be OUT, as OUT as we choose to be. Working to make that vision a reality is what we do every day at — in dozens of ways, in hundreds of settings, and for thousands of clients and allies each year.

Just as our new name highlights our vision of a better world, our new image reflects our mission. The rainbow illustrates the diversity, passion, and POWER of our people, interlocked and CONNECTED through a central hub, working to EDUCATE ourselves and others about the LGBTQ experience, and turning that knowledge into ADVOCACY that demands equality and safety for all of us wherever we are. We do not imagine ourselves the only place where this happens. However, as the only center like us for several hundred miles in every direction, we have a special responsibility to serve as many people as we can, as best as we can, and in as many ways as we can.

Our movement — the LGBTQ struggle for full equality and inclusion — has made too many advances to accept retreat. We understand that not every person can be out and fully honest. We know that right now we live in a world where the costs of being out can be too high to bear for some people. As an agency and as a movement, even with that understanding, we can no longer accept being silent, being hidden, or being in the closet. Someday in the future, there may be no need for coming out, because there is no “in.” Until that day, we will continue to fight, to educate, to support, and to stand proud. Open, authentic, and OUT.

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Memphis LGBT Community and Supporters Gather in Cooper-Young

Crowd gathered on Cooper in front the Memphis Gay and Lesbian Center.

In the wake of Sunday morning’s horrific mass shooting at a gay club in Orlando, the Memphis LGBT community and its supporters gathered in front of the Memphis Gay and Lesbian Center in Cooper-Young Sunday night. 

The vigil drew an estimated 300-400 people. Speakers included Memphis Mayor Jim Strickland, Congressman Steve Cohen, and Executive Director of the MGLCC, Will Batts.

Batts pointed out the historic significance of gay clubs as a sanctuary for the LGBT community. “They were a place where I could be who I was,” he said.

Strickland said, “I know there is more love than hatred in this world,” adding that he was comforted by seeing the crowd gathered in support.

Mayor Jim Strickland

Mayor Strickland speaks to crowd.

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Gay & Lesbian Community Center Launches Homeless Youth Count

On a national scale, around 40 percent of homeless youth identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT), according to the United States Interagency Council on Homelessness.

The Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) set out last weekend to find out how many local LGBT youth are homeless. Through its first annual Youth Count, volunteers stationed across the city surveyed teens and young adults about their housing situations and their sexual orientation and gender identity.

The exact number of homeless youth identified from the point-in-time count wasn’t yet available at press time, but the MGLCC could confim that they surveyed more than 100 youth.

“This is us trying to figure out how we get our kids off the street,” said Will Batts, executive director of the MGLCC. “It’s not safe for them to be on the street. It’s not healthy. It’s not good for their long-term outcomes. To do that, we need to know how many of them are there at any one time.”

Batts said the center is working on a permanent solution to help LGBT homeless youth ages 18 to 25, but he said the center won’t announce specifics until December. He said homeless LGBT teens and young adults in Memphis who have aged out of the foster care system have few options.

“We don’t refer kids to the shelters anymore because so many kids have reported being sexually assaulted or having their things stolen. A couple kids have said they fell asleep in the shelter with their arms wrapped around their belongings and woke up with them gone,” Batts said. “There’s nothing safe about those places for young people. They’re not safe for skinny little gay kids, and they’re certainly not safe for trans kids.”

Because the shelters have a reputation as unsafe places for LGBT youth, Batts said many turn to other options, some of which may dangerous or illegal.

“Some kids will turn to couch-surfing if it’s available. But others adapt survival techniques of selling themselves to get money to eat. An 18-year-old kid should not have to do that to survive,” Batts said.

Stephanie Reyes, MGLCC’s youth services and volunteer manager, said the center started their Youth Count by surveying those who showed up at the center’s weekly Gen Q youth group for LGBT young adults on Friday. On Saturday, volunteers set up tables at various locations around town where youth might hang out — Tobey Skate Park, the Central Library, Social Suds laundromat in South Memphis, etc. — and surveyed any young people who appeared to be under the age of 25.

The survey asks questions about sexual orientation and homelessness, so some surveyed likely weren’t the target population.

“We don’t want to stigmatize the kids and say, hey, ‘You look queer, come fill this out,'” Batts said. “They just wanted anybody under 25 to fill it out, and then they’ll pull out the ones that identify as LGBT.”

Reyes says she hopes having some solid numbers will help them raise funds for the center’s goal of housing LGBT homeless youth. For now, she says when homeless youth come to the center, she can provide food, clothing, and help with resumes, but she has no options for shelter.

“There are no shelters in Memphis that advertise that they are LGBT-friendly. Most are faith-based, and I don’t know of any that are, like, ‘Bring on the trans kids,'” Reyes said. “If you have an 18-year-old who has aged out of foster care, and they come to the center and tell us they’re homeless and ask what they can do, all I can say is go to the Union Mission and don’t tell anyone that you’re gay.”

In a separate MGLCC project, Reyes is launching a survey of emergency homeless shelters to determine which would like help in becoming more LGBT-friendly.

“It may be a case where the shelter may not be against this community, but they may not know how to serve them properly or be respectful in their questions. We want to find out who has had sensitivity trainings or who has an intake form that asks your identity instead of just male and female sex,” Reyes said.

Several years ago, the MGLCC launched a foster program that paired homeless LGBT youth with volunteers willing to temporarily open their homes. But that program is no longer in place.

“Some of the kids had more serious issues than most people could deal with. There are mental health issues and legal issues,” Batts said.

He said the center’s future efforts to house homeless youth will include wraparound services for legal, medical, and mental health needs.

“We make up less than 10 percent of the population, but up to 40 percent of homeless kids identify as LGBT. I saw a report today that said 40 percent of girls in juvenile detention facilities identify as LGBT,” Batts said. “Our community is overrepresented in homelessness and incarceration and abuse. But it’s not because we’re bad people. It’s because there’s a society that has told us that we are bad and disordered, and that wears on people. It creates a really unhealthy environment for young people.”

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Gay & Lesbian Community Center Receives Threat

Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center

On Thursday, the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center (MGLCC) received a message from someone threatening to harm the people who visit the center and the center’s property at 892 S. Cooper.

Will Batts, MGLCC’s executive director, said the center receives “vile, bigoted, disturbing communications from individuals” occasionally, but he said this one was different because it specifically threatened people and property. Batts could not offer specifics about the threat or where it came from because it is under active investigation by the Memphis Police Department and the Federal Bureau of Investigations.

Batts said the center’s board has begun reviewing its security measures, polices, and procedures. They are making enhancements to security where needed.

“We talk about this as a safe space, so we need to make sure that it’s not only mentally safe but also physically safe,” Batts said. 

Batts said that, as the county draws nearer to the expected June Supreme Court ruling on marriage equality, LGBT organizations across the country have to consider enhanced safety measures.

A statement from Batts was issued to the media on Friday afternoon. It says, “We take seriously the role we play as a physical symbol of our community’s strength, courage and perseverance. We will continue business as usual. All of us on the staff and the board of MGLCC remain committed to our mission and will continue working every day to ensure our equal rights, and to be safe, respected and celebrated.”